In the begining the physical part of the realtionship was blazing and now its so dual that if its not "Date night" you can forget it. We have'nt even said our vows and it's like we've been together for 20 years. I take care of myself more now then when I was singel. Not that it's the end all be all but what's a girl to do? Any suggestions? I've tried the sexy nighty, The starting up the fire myself only to be shot down. I'm reaching the end of my rope. I love my hubbie to be but DAMN I need more than just a peck and a hug to say "I Love You". No more loven here