Ok People, help! I have been reading over this site now, and more understand it. I need help. I want my hubby coming back for more, and I want him so hot and bothered before we get in bed. How do I do this? He is 39 and I am 32. We are not old, but it feels that way. We have only been married going on 4 years, and the sex is "norm" now. For a long time, we had multiple encounters within hours, now he is good for a day if not days. His excitement is gone once he cums. Mine however, has just started. It seems like I can go for days on end without sex, but once I have it, it seems that a sex fest would be great! The more I get it, the more I want. He is always good at pleasing me if he can't go again, but I want him to be just as excited, not like he is doing a chore by keeping me happy. How do I keep him turned on and begging for more???? I don't want to be unfulfilled, and I don't want him finding someone that makes him feel more sexual, what are you thoughts?