Jesniak

Not exactly the same thing but I used to wake up horny in the middle of the night and "rape" my wife. It's changed in the last few year. Our careers have gotten in the way of the fun we had. Too tired and busy to be horny all the time. We have a D/s relationship (I have another post here about that), so it is understood that I will use her anytime, anyplace, any way. I would wake up horny for her and get up and slather some lube on my cock, slowly pull the covers off, push her knees apart and mount her. She usually started to wake up as I was pushing her legs apart. I loved the half-asleep little grunting sounds she maked as I fucked her. She never made those sounds at any other time. When I finished we both went back to sleep. The next morning she would say, "I had a visitor last night," and wink at me. She loved it that I wanted her so bad that I would take her at the most unexpected times and places.

My wife and decided to try a D/s relationship about 10 years ago. We were getting used to each other and some of the spark was gone, but our D/s lifestyle brought it roaring back. Outside of sex I was always somewhat dominant and that hasn't changed, but when it comes to sex I take over. We talked about it before and wrote up an agreement together - things I will never do, things she will always submit to, things that get negotiated at a later time. We are both very adventurous within our totally committed marriage - so no one else ever gets invited in. Writing the contract was very enlightening in terms of revealing our desires and fantasies. We learned things about each other that we never would have guessed. Turned out, we both had fantasies of bondage and discipline, so B&D became a routine part of our sex life. We were very strict about our D/s roles in the beginning, but we've gotten a little sloppy - lazy I guess - over the years. We used to start every day with her on the floor on her elbows and knees after her bath. I caressed her all over, inspecting her to make sure she had done a good job with the razor, etc. If I felt any stubble she got a short spanking. Every morning I chose her bra (if I allowed her to wear one) and panties. I put her on her knees and made her take my cock in her mouth before we left the house for the day. After 10 years these things no longer happen every day. She still gets spankings, still gets tied to the bed, the porch rail, etc while I use her, but I haven't take the whip to her in months and months. Neither one of us is fond of that any more. Oh well, this started out as a question and it turned into an essay. So - anyone else into it?

I found her, but only after making 2 expensive mistakes and looking for years. I was so discouraged I spent many months not looking at all. I did not find the search fun at all - I hated it. I did find her, but didn't know it was "her" for 10 years. After we had known each other for a decade we finally realized we were meant for each other. We are compatible in every important way. The sex is amazing (I'm actually here on TT because I wore out our favorite vibrator on her) but so is a quiet Sunday at home together, visiting friends, or a family gathering - we conspire to get along in any circumstance. I am so blessed.

Hi all, I'm back after a long absence. I don't remember my old screen name, so I established a new account. Got the name out of the phone book. I see some familiar names still here from several years ago, Tyger, Rob, etc. Good to see you all. Finally wore out our favorite vibrator and came here to order a new one and decided to stop in the forums and say hi. So, uh ...HI!