My wife and I have reversed roles and roles play during sex. She got to wear a strap on and have her way with me. At first a little awkward but as she got bolder she felt more empowered. Soon our inhibitions left and she was pegging me hard. It was an experience that was eye opening for me as the male playing the female. I had to keep telling her not so hard. So in the end it was a good experience it has made me a better and gentler lover