The_Shootist

As a middle-aged guy I can tell you that one of the first things to go is the plumbing , combine that with a little blood pressure medicine and the beginnings of benign prostatic hyperplasia (BPH) and the ability to have good sex drops precipitously. The drugs they use to treat BPH can also cause erectile dysfunction . Add this to the STRESS of not being able to perform as you once did and it only gets worse. The little blue pill, relaxation, hot showers and soaking in a bath or hot tub, a (very) small amount of alcohol, visual, audio, olfactory and tactile sensations can really help . If he can stand it, a little cannabis can go a long way in helping "to catch a nut". Timing is everything and full arousal while completly relaxed with no worries about performance will have great effect It's damned embarrassing not being able to perform and the fear of not performing will keep a man in the showers.