sexynshyrissa

Yeah I only have the bullet right now and I just got it. I didn't have money to buy what I wanted but I remembered you saying that a bullet was a good vibe previously.

I loved it... it gave me the option to swallow or taste him if I wanted to but I wasn't required to, my skin was definately softer even to (odd plus) after washing it off....I will be begging for it again as soon as I get someone that isn't NSA ... Ris

it helps some. I try not to be tense but considering my situation its hard not to be...As to porn I do watch some but not alot. I'll check into a G-spot vibe thanks for the suggestions

Hey I had my first "facial" on monday... Ris

I've only had a couple orgasms ever in my life...I had one two days after I left my husband... Long story short he was a Feeder and an emotionally abusive one at that. Anyways, I am now single and horny as all fuck its been prolly 3 months since I hade good sex and almost 6 weeks since I've had bad sex... Anyways....Any ideas on how I can get to an orgasm...I bought a bullet vibe..but still haven't gotten there.. Ris

Ben Wa Balls Howard you crack head they have em....

Mikayla, its not that I used to be a lesbian its that I used to think I was fully a lesbian and realize now obiviously that I was bisexual. I know I'm more a lesbian than anything but I want to make my marriage work for now. I can't just give up not a year into it, ya know. Plus my values won't allow it. I'm working on having this conversation everytime I do he feels inferior because he can never be a woman so he will never fully satisfy me. So honestly I dunno what to do the most fun sex of my life was with a woman but I don't dare tell him that..

ME too actually....

The thing is he won't talk to me I think it is the first one or the second one or alittle of botho f those..... but Its just soo annoying he won't talk about sex no matter what I'm very unsatisfied right now I used to be a lesbian and convinced myself I was straight because I couldn't get a girlfriend. Well now I'm married and he convinced me to tell him about this "friend" of mine Dani....well she was my ex-girl friend and so yeah...I've realized I wasn't as straight as I thought I was...However I love my man dearly and just wish he would at least try to help me be satisfied so my sex life doesn't have to suck for me to stay with a man I love. The other thing he won't do is oral...Any suggestions on getting him to do that?

I like you loved anal too bad I can't get my man to give me too much of it becasue he can't cum as quick as he would like....

Just sit down and talk about it, Honestly men are sooo scared about asking a woman to have anal. When many of us have wanted to but arent gonna ask for it... I personally had to ask my man for it because he was too chickenshit to ask his own damn self....

Good for you CL!!!

My first sex toy was a baby pink slim line.....It was actually my ex girlfriends but we used it in consensual/sharing play (girl on girl)..And she gave it to me when we quit dating. I have no favorite right now because I own NONE!~ I know sad I'm working on saving money for the ONE I want its $189 dollars its a one of a kind sculpted glass dildo...and a bullet to go with it, I will have the bullet I know before the glass dildo but Eh... SOMEDAY

My opinion is no...maybe in her family partial nudity or even full nudity was normal. I mean in my family it was accepted that us girls could and would run around in boyshorts and tshirts when we werent at work or school during the summer I mean 80% humidity and 100 degrees, boyshorts and tshirts are the shit for that weather. And the guys typically ran around in shorts or boxers it was normal to us. Maybe I'm wierd but eh

As a Bisexual woman I want to wiegh in on this one I hope thats ok... The first thing I notice about women is their eyes and then their boobs and ass. but thats just me.

Ty, Mikayla, He and I talked for a brief moment about what to do like Recreational wise today but SEX NEVER ENTERED THE CONVO....BLAH! We live close to the black hills so he wants to go through the black hills on a scenic drive to Rapid City SD Anyways, I just want to get there alittle bit before supper drop him off at borders because he has TONS of gift certs to spend there. And then I would go to the hotel and set it up and then go for supper with him...but I'm not sure he'll let me drop him off he's gotten pretty possesive of me these days, since our big fight. Anyways, I was thinking all romantic. Roses, petals, candles, new lingerie(haven't bought any since we were dating I'd say its time to buy new stuff) Any ideas for some new tricks I could try he's VERY boring he either dominates me (I'm a sub(BTW) so the that was the thought behind the BDSM club but like I said we can't afford it.) Or be all gentle missionary sex...its alittle boring, I'm a Big gal so not all sex positions are possible but I want to throw some new foreplay or SOMETHING into my life. He thinks for our anniversary it will just be a peaceful day driving through the hills...I'm like excuse me F#@# that....but eh. Any other ideas based on the further knowledge I've disposed.

I BEGGED for it. I know from personal experience with toys (that someone stepped on ) that I loved anal stimulation...hope that answeres your question

WHAT DO I DO...We've been going out/married for a year in march the 3rd to be precise...we started having sex in August and things are alittle bit boring right now I want to get us out of our bed room and in a different enviroment. I wanted us to have money to go to a BDSM club on the east coast but thats not happening (Plus My body isn't in the correct PERFECT shape ) Anyways, I'm thinking about us going to the nearest city and getting a hotel room. I already have a bottle of champagne that we were given and a bottle of wine so take your pick...but I need to come up with CHEAP ways of wowing my man. HELP!

Thanks Mikayla ..... I just had to tell or do something it was sooooooooo good it hadn't even been 3 min since he had cum and I was posting but anyways.

I just had anal sex for the first time it FELT AMAZING I have to tell or post or something and I dont' feel comfortable telling anyone of my friends...

Thanks Mikayla

I find them facinating but can't find much information except for medicaltoys.com Anyone have anymore info? Ris

I know what you going through Doll. I was almost raped and was molested many times two years ago. And after that I had no sexual experiences until my husband and I got married. I had a hard time coming out of my shell, turns out I was a submissive and needed him to dominate me. But I had put up the Dominatrix style to my sexuality, because I didn't want to be hurt, I wanted to be the one incharge until I trusted him fully. However that took time. catlove165, I chickened out on my boyfriends birthday so I understand. give it time doll.

Seriously its a painless thing if your willing to get your hand bloody for your girl...Just use your hand you can be gentle. Strap on'saren't gentle seriously. theyaregood just not gentle.

I am a bisexual woman that is married. I would just say that your curious. It doesn't make you bi to have a facination with breasts...I do have to say that women are better lovers though and I will always think that.