Yes lots of lube and slow as you go. I think it feels amazing, its usually a happens in our little rougher sessions because after he gets all the way in its fucking awesome and always comes with pulling my hair, pinching nipples, choking, being tied up and thats what I like. Occasionally I get some wand action as I'm on my knees on the bedside and a few times as he cums I'm squirting. Pretty fucking amazing.