Years ago my wife and I went to Malta on a vacation. There was a topless beach there and she said do you mind if I go topless and I said it's your decision. So she did. It was really nice seeing various women of shapes and sizes all going topless and not having any qualms about it. Later on we found out that there was a nude beach close by. We went over to it and for the first time the two of us stripped down and were totally naked. Being that everybody else was it was not a big deal. If you're the only one in the crowd that's that way that makes a difference. But when everybody else is, it's just part of the beach experience.