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I would have to say it depends on the relationship...some people like that..others may not..and the word girlfriend can mean different things now...a girlfriend could be a friend that he likes to talk to and have a platonic relationship with..just because she is a woman doesn't mean they have to have sex. There is always the possibility something could happen. Anyway, I guess I would have to say I wouldn't like my bf to have a gf so i guess my answer would be no. Cinders

Hmmm for me I love blonde men with blue or green eyes who are not skinny but keep in shape..my favorite part of a man is his bottom..i love a nice firm one that a girl can grab...I like men that are taller then me and i can wear a nice pair of heels with..my ex bf was 6'6 weighing in a 270 or 280 can't remember for sure..he was a body builder and that was over 6 years ago..I stand 5'6 and weigh 130 so i loved the feeling of being delicate..that being said My live in bf has dark hair and dark brown eyes..he is 5'11 and weighs around 180 and has a nice bottom that i just love to pat and grab..with a nice athletic build..lean like a swimmers build. Other then the physical i love being with a guy you can talk to, joke with, is nice and just fun to be with..my bf has all those qualities and even though he doesn't have the blonde hair blue eyes i will keep him

I have never had phone sex so I wouldn't know(although I have been asked a couple of times..lol)I wouldn't know what to say or anything..I guess I like the actual touch of someone but it is one of those things that make me go hmmm sounds like it might be something to think about and maybe try in the future. Cinders

I have mine trimmed close and shaved at the sides. It makes the sex and the oral sex more mind blowing and i have learned that when a guy sees that and not a hedge they have to forage through they get off just looking. Cinders

well i can see i left a little bit of a misunderstanding here...he is considerate in that he does do a lot of foreplay which tells me he does have an idea that maybe he knows he doesn't last long..the problem is i like more penetration time then actual foreplay which was why i wanted to introduce the toys...not to immasculate him by telling him he ejactulates prematurely...i would never hurt his feelings that way...this is all new to him and when i first introduced the concept of toys to him he went over the edge a bit and the conversation stopped...it was decided we would talk about it later..i was just looking for some tips on how to talk to him about it without making him feel in adequit....because that is how he felt the first time around. Sorry for the confusion. Yes it has been one orgasm in four years from him but he does try I get impatient and that is my fault. Cinders

Thanks Mikayla I do have toys so I do have them by myself just not with him. He has a lot of self esteem issues and we are slowly and surely working on them. He isn't a sexual person like me but I will take your advice and work on him lasting longer. Cinders

I know what you are going through in fact I am in the same situation right now. Is the reason she is like this is because of her background? I know that is the problem with my man. If that is the case do you think maybe talking about it will help? If she is uncomfortable about talking about it I have a suggestion that may or maynot help. It is kind of sneaky and not total ethical but it is what I did to find out what was the underlying problem with my man and it did help me to understand.

I recently introduced a new concept to my bf about using toys in the bedroom and he didn't respond very well. He doesn't last long with actual penetration so I thought using toys would enhance our sex life. He took it as an insult. I love him very much but I would like more in the bedroom. I have only had one orgasm in the four years we have been together. He is very old fashioned when it comes to sex. Any ideas on how I can help him improve our sex life??