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I am curious to the advice that everyone gives in response to this article. Lately everytime I get ready to cum, I feel like I am going to pee and I make my boyfriend stop. Its not something I have ever experienced before.

I was glad to see this post. I have been dealing with a similar situation. I can cum over and over again when receiving oral, but I cannot cum during sex. My boyfriend tries so hard to make me and has even talked to me about what he can do make me. Any pointers? I understand everyone is different, but any advice would be great!

I have a friend that bought one. I think they are on their 3rd or 4th one. She loves it and so does he. Personally, we are looking at getting one.

I have to say, since my boyfriend and I have been together, a year and a half ago, I have put on more weight then I would care to carry around. I get real down on myself cause none of my clothes fit correctly. I too went through a point where I didn't want my boyfriend to see me naked. If he had it his way, he would have me naked 24/7. He thinks I am beautiful and have the most beautiful body. I have to say, that helps with my self esteem. I didn't want to have sex in the light, but I did like to watch his face as I went down on him or as we had sex. I found that candlelight helped my situation. We were able to see each other and I didn't feel like all my fat was blinding the situation. Does your boyfriend compliment you frequently?

Mikayla, I have to agree with you about the sexual advances. Nothing drives him more crazy then when he is sitting on the couch watching tv and I climb up and strattle his face, slow easing my pussy down to his lips, clothes or no clothes, we both go nuts. He also loves to be woke up with a blow job. When ever he works late, I love to light candles all the way through the house and leave little notes. Sometimes I tell him where to take off a certain article of clothing and sometimes I leave notes indicating what I want him to do to me when he gets to the bedroom. I am laying in bed either in sexy lingerie or completely naked and have attempted to half way tie myself to the bed. I don't think he can get naked and to the room fast enough. I also love going out with friends and all night long, I either slide my hand under the table and gently rub his leg, from his crotch to his knee and back up or I will whisper little things in his ear that elude to my ideas of the perfect evening later. I generally wear a skirt when we go out with friends, it makes it easier on the way home. He goes nuts when I go down on him on the way home or grab his hand and pull it towards me and start rubbing myself with it. It almost always guarantees for a great night when we get home, as long as to many "adult beverages" were consumed during the evening.

Mikayla, I need your advice. I have read many of your post and you seem to know what you are talking about. My boyfriend really wants to have anal sex and I do too. Everytime he tries though, it hurts me so bad. Other than getting anal ease, do you have any pointers on relaxing myself during anal so that he can glide in easier?

I sometimes feel the same way. Its one thing to start dating a guy that has been in relationships before, but its another thing to be with a man that has been married. My boyfriend has been married, has a child with his ex wife, and because of his great sister in law, I know that they had sex toys and what have you. I want to think that our sex life is much more incredible than he could have ever had with her. Does anyone have any ideas how to be more confident about myself in bed? Don't get me wrong, a day doesn't go by that he doesn't tell me how beautiful I am, how I am incredibly sexy and at every opportunity he gets, he is either rubbing my boobs, touching my "girlie parts," or rubbing on my butt. It doesn't matter if we are at home, in the car, or walking through the grocery store. He makes it very clear to me. This is kinda off the subject, maybe, has anyone ever found out their boyfriend was talking to someone else and actually read the emails and agreed to stay with them?

I also fantasize about being with another woman. My boyfriend and I have talked about it several times and he knows that I would love to have another woman lick on me, kiss me, make me cum. My thing is, he sometimes brings up people we know and that makes me uneasy. I don't know if he truly fantasizes about her and I together or if he fantasizes about just her in general. I asked him one time about a particular acquataince of ours and asked him if he fantasized about her going down on him. I don't think I am secure enough to allow her to have contact with him. Is that wrong? Is that selfish of me to expect him to be securing in me being with another woman but not me being able to reciprocate? We sometimes talk to each other during sex about my fantasy of being with a woman. I tell him to imagine her eating me. Its nice because I can fantasize about it and still be open with him. When we have sex "together," he is all I can think about.

Ok, All you did was make me more apprehensive. We have talked about it a lot lately. He is completely ok if I don't want him to be intimate with her. I want her though. I have fantasized about it for a long time.

ok, you sound like a professional in the subject. My boyfriend and I just really opened up on the sex issue. Kinda weird cause we told each other everything, but were both afraid of the same thing, the fact the other one would think we were a complete idiot. We both want to have another woman join us. He told me he would like to f*&k her and I wasn't sure what to think about that. Of course, I want to be intimate with her, but I am not sure about the ideal of him being intimate with her. Am I being unfair to him?