sessi79

Sounds like your gf is a lot like me...sometimes it's really hard to let go of those inhibitions. One suggestion; next time you're in the bedroom or you want to get lucky, try turning on some sexy music and dance with her before having sex. You already know she likes to dirty dance, so maybe this will open her up to a more exciting sexual encounter.

I completely understand the way you feel 'cause I'm the same way. I love to give bj's, it turns me on, but I have a very active gag reflex and that can be a real problem sometimes. I've found that if my Hb takes a shower first or if I do it in the shower it's much better. I like everything to be clean. BTW, I still can't let him cum in my mouth though. I wish I could be more help, but if nothing else maybe it helps to know you're not alone. Feel free to try the shower thing, it may just work for you.

I'm really curious to try new sexual experiences, especially anal, but I grew up in a very strict catholic home & so I feel dirty or like I'm doing something wrong when I have sex any other way than missionary. My Hb grew up in a similar situation and he's kind of timid also, but I know there's a sexual fiend in there somewhere...I can see it in his eyes when we fuck. We tried anal a really long time ago when we were younger and first dating and it was really weird for both of us cuz we had no idea what we were doing. I've since started watching some porn & reading all these posts, but I don't know how to approach this again with my husband without him thinking I'm a freak or worse a slut! I'm also kind of freaked about the prospect of "making a mess", if you know what I mean. Any suggestions?