Something New

I can definately relate, my husband is NOT a sexual person either. He says that I am like the man in a relationship, because I am constantly hounding him for sex. The sad part is it isn't that great, so I really don't know why I even beg for it. I guess I think that SOMETHING is better than nothing...but sometimes I am not so sure. I am so frusterated because I don't know what to do, since he is constantly rejecting me. But when he is in the mood, he basically just jumps on top of me, bangs away until he cums then its all over, before I can even get into it. Once its over its OVER, no coming back to see if I am satisfied. When I bring up the issue he gets upset and says thats why he doesn't want to do it, because he cant please me, but he doesn't even try. When I want to tell him in conversation he gets defensive and says I just want everything perfect all the time, but really I just want foreplay, at least a little damn...Sorry got off on a tangent, but really my sex drive is high, and I really don't understand how I got married to someone so opposite (that is a whole different story) By the way, I just had a baby 8months ago, and my sex drive is probably higher now than it was before I got pregnant.,,,yet another story...Any advice out there for me???

THanks Howard

I definately understand your pain...I have the same issue, except I don't even get to orgasm. My husband goes long enough for him to cum, after that its all over! So I am left with nothing, but a lot of frusteration...I am contemplating getting a toy to help myself