Tyger

I was on this blind date with an Hispanic guy. Very nice guy, polite, cute, long hair, spoke fluent English, worked at a custom motorcycle shop. From what I've been told & by my experience, Hispanic men find going with a white woman almost a right of passage, or a way to brag how successful they are, so when they go out with one, they are very flashy, showing, and grabby. It's almost like a status symbol or something. Anyway, we were driving in his car. He reached over and grabbed my hand. OK, no problem, we'd had a good time so far: nice dinner, went to a bar to play some pool, and met up with a friend of his. So we were going to his friend's house, and he grabs the back of my head (at a stop light), and tries to deepthroat me! LOL Anyway, I kindly pushed him away, and told him that it was way too soon, and to keep his eyes on the road. OK, no problem. So, then he tries another approach and slides his hand out of mine, and tries to go up my leg. I let it get about halfway up my thigh, and stopped him. Trying to be nice about it, ya know? He didn't get the clue, and tried to move higher. I told him no. He tried again, so I finally told him that if he didn't remove his hand, I would remove it for him....off his body. He got the hint. We had an ok time after that, but it was obvious that he was expecting a good fuck for taking me out, and I just wasn't all into that. One other time, I was at a bar, with my best friend (who towers over me and is a thickly built woman, but not fat by any means). I had a BF at the time, but he worked the night shift, and so was at work. He trusted me to go and said OK, so I just wanted to get out of the house, and just wanted to sit, have a few drinks, socialize, and maybe dance. Well, this one guy pushes my shoulder, I think meaning to poke it, and slurs "Wanna dance?" I said no thank you. He said, slurring, "Ohhhhh c'moooooon". And he winks. I said no thanks again. He comes over about 4 more times, always politely told no. The last time, my best friend was like, "want me to pound him for you?" I told her no thanks, but if I danced with him, would she come. Yep. So, he came up, and again, slurred the same invitation. I finally said "If I dance with you this time, will you go away???" He just looked at me and said "OK". And he really danced with me LOL! It was a fast dance. We do to sit down, and he tries to grab my ass. I told him to keep his fuckin' hands off me. I had a boyfriend, and I was just there to have some fun with my friend. He then told me that I didn't love my BF. WTF? So, I asked him why he thought that. He said, very intelligently, "You're in a bar". Way to go Einstein! LOL Yes, I said that to him. He kept pestering me about it. I went up to go to the bathroom, and ran into a friend of mine: a big guy, that I went to school with. Let me put it this way, I'm 5'10", and he made me look SHORT! Plus, he was just huge!! Very muscular. I gave him the nickname "The Wall", cuz if you came face-to-face with him, that's how it felt!! LOL I loved hugging him too, cuz he was like this huge bear. I hugged him and asked him to do me a favor, he was game. We went back to the bar, and my friend, The Wall, posed as my BF (appropriate though), with his arm around me, and calling me "honey". LOL The slurred drunk was very intimidated. I introed them, and sure enough, Slur-Man left me alone. The Wall just laughed, and told me to come to him anytime I needed support!! LMAO

Whoo-hoo!!!!!

This is a good practice to embrace. Honesty and being direct is a good thing. In bringing up something like this, which can be insulting to a degree, you also need to practice TACT with. Many smokers are on the offensive if you say ANYTHING about their smoking. So, you will probably know how to approach this a little better than we will, as far as that aspect. Yes, everything you put in your body you will find can affect the taste of your "juices", male AND female. Have you ever noticed that, after eating a lot of garlic/onions, your urine or even vaginal area can smell a bit sour, but not sick-like sour? Same thing. Foods high in iron, yeast, and acid can really affect your tastes more. Coffee too. If you drink a lot of water, this can make the things you put into your body a bit more flushed out, so the tastes wouldn't be as strong though. ANOTHER GREAT reason to drink more water!! WOOT!! Good luck!

Geez woman!! LOL I have a little bit of everything! Bondage, dual actions, glass, silicone, clit stimulators, anal.........and a variety of shapes & colors. It's like a schmorgestboard!!

I've just been monitoring and watching what and how much I eat. It's been working. Yes, things do count and if you "cheat" on your diet, thinking it won't matter, well, it does matter. WW does teach you how to watch your intake, and uses a point system so you can see number results. Many people, especially women, use numbers to gauge their fitness (pounds lost), so this is a great way for many to see what they're doing, diet wise. Lots of people can't or won't take the time to use common sense when it comes to diet & exercise. But, if you find a program that works for you, then go for it!!!

I can share if ya wanna!

Honestly, I really am a DC fan, for some wierd reason, I am really attracted to him, and it is wierd cuz he's soooo not my "usual" type. But, well, there it is. I was looking around for a few pics of him, and came across this, and almost fell outta my chair when I saw this & had to share!!!

Um, we're needing a little bit more information than this. Granted, you said for both masturbation & with a partner, however, knowing if you've tried anything before &, if so, what, if you enjoy anal sex, oral sex, bondage, ect. I mean, we could just shoot out all sorts of different things, but, unless we know what you've tried and like, we can't get overly specific. For now, what I would advise, is to peruse the Toys For Men section, see what is available, what catches your eye and intrigues you, and you can ask more specific questions. Have fun!!!

I've always wanted to do something sexual with a woman.....I'm still hoping!!!

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Dear Sirs, One of my checks was returned marked "insufficient funds". In view of current developments in the banking market, does that refer to me or to you?

Welcome to TooTimid & feel free to dive in, post experiences, and ask questions!!!

Ya know, I answered this, but my post got eaten up by the hungry Internet Gremlin, apparently! LOL Cheating, to me, is any sort of physical and/or emotional (romantic/sexual) involvement with someone other than your SO. I think that if you have a long-term, romantic affair, that it's more damaging & hurtful to your SO though. Even if they never find out about it, it's the ultimate betrayal, IMO.

Glad to see things are, um, looking UP!!!!

I'm curious, who's had a person give them unwanted attention, to the point of really being a PITA? What was the behavior? How did you handle it?

^---EXACTLY!!!

Darlin, you are simply divine, and I wouldn't worry about anything. Just lay down, and put yourself in his hands. Most likely, he'll ask you what your comfortable with, as far as clothes go. I've taken my top off, kept the bra on, laid down, and let him unhook the bra to get a real good rubbin'. Sometimes things happened, other times, no. Just relax and enjoy!

Welcome to TooTimid. I hope you find us informational & enlightening, and I'm looking forward to your posts!

I'm glad you're putting yourself out there again. Take your time, have fun, and just learn about yourself and what you want. There's no rush, really. We missed ya!!

No worries whatsoever!!! We always encourage our customers and other board members to post reviews to items that they got here, whether or not they liked them. Only the Review Team has guidelines we MUST stick too, however, paying customers can post whatever/however they want. Thanks for the reviews!!! Very helpful.

Remember, even if you post a response that Meg/Rob posted, as to an issue, be sure to e-mail them about it too. They usually check their e-mails more than they do the forums/PMs. It's not hard to remember, it's their names (Meg is Meaghan@TooTimid.com), with @TooTimid.com. Glad y'all are right on top of it. Thanks for the vigilance!!

Thanks darlin'! I have had a lot of down time the last few days, trying to catch up on sleep!!! Ugh!! Tyger just ain't pretty on no sleep.....she growls first, asks later....!!! LMAO

I'm tired, yet accomplished. I'm planning, yet sitting. I have stuff to do, yet I'm not doing it.

That's what you get for being such a Slacker *poke poke*!! LMAO Anyway, glad it fixed your issue darlin'. It's hard catching up sometimes.