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  2. Meet-Ups?

    in Oral Sex Discussion

    Posted

    Though it's a personal choice to do so, this forum isn't a hookup site.

    That said, I have had friends come on here, and have made a few friends on here. I have yet to meet any of the ones I've met on here in person though.

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  4. Spam posts

    in Rants and Raves

    Posted

    On 5/2/2022 at 6:42 PM, Dastardly said:

    Yes I had delusions of maybe meeting some people in Colorado who were interested in adult fun, but other than a few real people, it's not been much different than the commercial online spam adult sites

    Well, this really is NOT a social hookup dating site. So, if you're searching  for local singles in your area, you may want to try another forum.

  5. May is Masturbation Month!!

    in Masturbation Tips

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    7 minutes ago, Kinky Twinkie said:

    Enjoying Angela wand massager video and taking myself to a newer and higher level. Do something new for a change. It not just for women. It actually my wife ex boyfriend Bob with the huge 9 ft cord

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    Hey, nothing wrong with that one bit!!!

    Years ago, TT sold a Tom's of Finland Hammer Wand. It's meant for men, but I got one, and lemme tell ya, the vibes are sooo strong, my GF prefers that to any female oriented designed toy thus far!!

    We take off the silicone hammer head, and, whoooooo!!!

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  8. Group Hookup

    in The Cafe

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    12 hours ago, Kinky Twinkie said:

    That explains why it seemed more like a ghost town. Fewer regular users then year ago

    Unfortunately,  some people leave because of the constant dick pics in areas those really aren't the topic of the area, and "wanna hookup" posts, which flood this forum, instead of the sharing we had. I would love for our new members go searching for at least one post, 3 yrs or older, that interests them, that's not about hooking up, and bring it back to the front for a refresher! :)

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  9. Need help sexpert

    in Ask A "Sexpert"

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    On 12/7/2020 at 10:53 AM, Stella96 said:

    My man doesn’t engage in any sexual relations with me. The only thing he constantly requests is for me to go under the blanket and give him head and usually this lasts hours long of him not moving. He doesn’t eat me out, he doesn’t dirty talk me, he doesn’t finger me, he doesn’t kiss me, he doesn’t stroke me. Nothing enticing. So now the head I give him has become so boring for me I’m always just waiting for it to be over with.  

    Nope. Wouldn't continue giving and not receiving at ALL. No fly zone for me if that was my situation!!!

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  10. My Boyfriend Is Selfish in Bed

    in Ask A "Sexpert"

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    On 4/25/2022 at 6:29 AM, Rio said:

    You are not overreacting. I would follow his advice and go find somebody new. And not just for sex but permanently. Apparently he doesn't really care about your feelings.

    Ditto.

    If he doesn't care about YOUR feelings and YOUR desires, then he won't change. Not at 62 yrs old & obviously not wanting to change. 

    I wouldn't take it too personally though. He's probably going to be like that with anyone.

    It's not worth your time & energy to keep this up and develop self-doubts when he clearly has the problem that he's not willing to work on.

    It takes 2 to make it work.

  11. Problematic PMs

    in News & Announcements

    Posted

    Hey all!! Happy Monday!

    So, I've had more than a couple PMs from concerned members stating that there are others that are harassing, badmouthing, or continuous messaging (mostly women) members privately.

    Let me be clear, we, as admins, CANNOT see/access PMs. So, if you get something like this, please copy & paste it, including the screen name of the person you feel is harassing you, & send it to an Admin such as myself. You do need to ask them to stop messaging you as well, but I'm happy to also send a PM to them requesting they stop, & if they don't,  they may possibly get banned.

    Again, you must ask them to stop first. We definitely don't want people leaving because of this, but, sadly, we have lost a few because of it.

    Also, if someone posts something on your profile somehow, you can delete it. We admins can't edit anything ON/IN your profile. 

    We've been monitoring the reports, and deleting/banning as much as possible.  The reports haven't been as many, thankfully,  so here's hoping that means the spammers are slowing down!! :)

    Let's continue to make this a fun place to share sexual thoughts, ideas, questions, and keep it a safe space for members to continue to share such personal info.

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  13. Out of touch

    in Rants and Raves

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    On 4/9/2022 at 9:57 AM, Kinky Twinkie said:

    Usually I dont have issues with the community but this has a point. It a shame a community get hijacked, their reputation ruined,  and their good  accomplishments forgotten by a few extremists who get all the media attention. These extremest using the lgbt as a shield for cover. They not wanted but they want to be part of the community regardless. Like women sports where women wanted equality in recognition but not to the point of men identifying as women to compete against them, use their bathroons, and use their dressing rooms. If you get a sex change that fine but it not a ticket to indulge your fantasies

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    Where I think I know where you're going with this...let me put my 2 cents in.

    Many people see all this media frenzy as "OMG! LGBTQA people want to show our kids what it's like to be GAY!!" That's not really the case. Most just want equality. 

    It's ok for us to teach our kids Harry & Jane are married and have 2 kids.....(how did they get the kids???)......but it's not ok to say Sally has 2 Daddies?

    It's the same idea of sexism: it's ok to teach young girls to rely on a prince to rescue her, and just be pretty, than it is to teach them to be strong, independent, smart, and speak their mind (though the movies are getting a little better about that). But it's not ok to let Jimmy wear a dress, or Sherry to wear men's clothes?

    There are age-appropriate ways to show acceptance.  Majority of gay AND heterosexual people want people to stay out of their sexual business.  As long as things are done between consenting adults, it's really ok.

    But how to we show that Harry & Jane, a married couple, is just as ok as Liz and Lisa getting married?  When talking about Harry & Jane, do you think they're going to go explicitly into detail how kids are made???? No. It's the acceptance aspect of it all.

    On a similar note...

    As far as someone starting off as one gender, then changing to another gender in sports; though I believe in equality,  I do not think that gives the transgender person an even playing field, so to speak.

    Then there's the bathroom debate....of course. If you know a transgender person, it has nothing to do with their sexuality...it's how they feel on the inside. Nothing to do with being "pervy" in the bathroom. The ones that try and use the excuse of "I'm really a girl" to get a thrill, really aren't "transgender.....they're just predators, plain & simple.

    Most true transgender people are some of the sweetest people you'd ever hope to meet, honestly. 

    You're right....the few bad apples ruin it for the majority of nice, genuine people.

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