I am in a relationship and the lack of sex is really making me consider dumping him, I am 34 and he is 44, he hasn't had sex in 6 almost 7 years he has let me do oral on him once (he cummed 4 times) and done oral on me once... constantly says he wants to do more oral and have sex with me, but he is "afraid" because he has not had sex in so many years, well we met in June started seeing each other in October, became more involved in December and I am getting way the hell over it He says to have my child spend the night off so he can come spend the night (I won't stay with him due to his weird-o roommate), when he spends the night all he usually does is snore We can "make-out" for lack of better words and I feel how hard he gets he tells me how much he wants me then he suddenly he will want to just stop We are wonderful friends and spend time together often, he has told me that he loves me on more than one occasion ...we can sometimes be happy just being together cooking, gardening etc...but I guess I want more in a relationship than gardening I know he masturbates and I gave him oral so I know it still works... I have abstained for sex since my last relationship for several years and dam** after several months in this relationship..I want to get laid!! Is it going to happen? What would you recommend trying/saying/doing?? Or do I get out now?