On the subject of fisting, I have mixed feelings. All I need is the woman's finger up my ass while she sucks me off. Women, on the other hand, seem to like "stretch me out. Fill me up!" There is a lot one can do with a woman in the nature of foreplay with your hand up inside her cunt (I love to use cunt sometimes, versus "pussy". It just sounds so much nastier!). As far as anal fisting goes I leave that to the most advanced ladies who want such things.