babya2006

Thanks for the reply. I just got back from spending a month with him and after about a week of painful trying every day...something finally just clicked and I relaxed and ever since then it was okay for me. Still if he tries to soon it may hurt for a split second, but then everything is fine. Im so glad I can stop stressing about it!

The first time I did it, it wasnt planned or anything. So I just kind of went for it, and in the middle he asked if I wanted to be warned so I said yes(stoppping of course..I'm sure it was a mood killer ) and said yeah...but he kind of forgot to warn me, lol. I figured he was about to cum though, because I could feel it working its way up, and before I knew it, it was in my mouth, so I just swallowed. I've only ever done it once since then (this all only happend a couple weeks ago) and he warned me, but I swallowed again. The taste isnt horrible, and I'm sure he likes it that I swallow. My only issue is that it feels like it coats my throat and stays there until I drink soda or something. I never thought I'd like giving BJs, but it's great, because he's so quiet with other things, and he actually will moan with a BJ. Kinda getting off topic now lol

Because I hate doctors and I'm trying to find help myself. I'll go to one if nothing works, but for now I'd like some suggestions, I cant be the only one who has experienced painful intercourse.

Back in November I flew to see my boyfriend (I'm 20, he's 21) and after 3 years of saying we were going to wait for marriage, we decided to go ahead and have sex. It was a very painful experience, so painful I could only let him put the head of his penis in because it hurt so bad. We have since done it probably 6 more times, and each time is as painful as the last. We do foreplay, and I feel as though I'm aroused, but whenever he starts to enter, it brings a burning sensation and once he is fully in(or at least I think he is, it hurts so bad I'm focused on the pain really), it just feels like he's scraping against the inside with every move he makes. It's very uncomfortable and it's really starting to bother me because I don't know what's wrong with me. I thought it might be a lubrication issue, but I went and bought a dildo(he lives in England, I live in America, so its not like we can practice a lot), and used some ky as a lubrication to see if I could use that without the pain. Even with that it burns and has a horrible painful feeling so I cant even force myself to put an inch of it inside of me. Has anyone else experienced this, or does anyone know how to help? I'm so frustrated :-\