My wife had a hysterectomy seven years ago. Ever since our sex life has dwindled to non existence except for a few handjobs per month. She doesn’t have the hormones any longer that make her want sex plus when we did have sex it was very painful for her. I really don’t want her to go through a lot of painful medical treatment for this so I’ve told her that handjobs are enough. She’s been using different size dildos with vitamin E to help the atrophy. She’s gotten a couple of infections lately doing this. She’s still willing to try but I’m reluctant to asks her to continue it. I’m just not sure if I should let her keep trying treatment or tell her to stop and just do handjobs on me from now on. Any advice would be great!
