Mikayla,thanks for the advice .i was wondering this because i have been having sex with my ex and i am still in love with him . when we were together together he would last for a long time . but now that we're not together and anymore and occasionally have sexual relations hes been quick to ejaculate . this does upset him because he says he wants to satisfye me as well as him enjoying it more ,do u think he has feelings for me that r deep and he is scared to admit it to himself and me? please help i'm confused and not sure if his intentions is just sex or if he misses me and scared to ask me for forgiveness and wants me back ? oh by the way he is 38 yrs old