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i would really really like some sort of answer to this one, please?

holly batman! people ... relax little bit. it almost sounds like most of you have had a bad relationship or two! where you got screwed over by SOs. >_> life is a whole lot better when and if we trust others and apply innocent until proven guilty. bottom line, if you are constantly worrying about what your SO is doing behind your back ... it's better to be single. back to the regular programming. yes, I wear condom. ALL the time. even though we have not talked about, it is mutually understood that having a kid is not an option to both of us. we are both young (I am late 20s, she's early 20s), we just want to enjoy life. Have fun. and LOVE in between. no, she's not on birth control pill at the moment. my guess is that she uses diaframe or something. now, what do female do "before" sex?

thank you! p.s. I may be a blind, but I am far from stupid

I guess I am a curious George.

well .. I always thought it would be clear to light white color liquid. I have had a number of sex partners where I made them "cum" while going down on them. If my memory serves right, almost all of them were clear liquid. Some with very light off-white lighter liquid. This girl that I am seeing right now ... When she's "wet" ... it's just clear odor-less liquid. The way should be. When she "cum" (when we both finish at the same time ) .. I sometimes find my little guy (was a big guy 2 seconds ago) covered in white cream. FYI, we use condoms. When it happened first, we both thought it was my cum that leaked out of the condom. But it is not. What is this white cream? She had her physical check up not too long ago and everything came back clean and good.

Ok, it's not like I never had sex before but I guess I never cared before. Well, now I do! She goes to washroom right before we have sex. Everytime. She's not on Birth Control Pills. What does she do while in the washroom? If I have to guess ... it will be the "sponge". But I don't feel the "sponge" when we have sex? (I have felt "sponge" before with another girl - asked and confirmed)

first of all ... thanks all for your replies. am I blind? maybe so. someone said .. "love is blind" maybe I didn't explain "i didn't feel like it" good enough. It was like when your 3 years old boy hits another boy in town ... only because he didn't want to share his candy or something like that. Your 3 years old boy does not know the difference between rights and wrongs. Hence his action is somewhat justified. Yes, before you tell me anything ... I do know this girl is not 3 years old. That's just the way she is. Do I like it? No. Does she know it? Yes. Is she working on it? I hope so. but once again, maybe I am blind. It's been a week of hell. A lot happened. This is the girl I finally have feelings for after 8 years of break I took since my last ex. Yes, I dated. But not for relationships. Guys know what I dated many many girls for. She called me this morning. 7am. Very un-usual for her. I missed the phone call as I was in the meeting. She called 8am. I missed it She called at 9am again. I answered. She asked me if I can "look past" what happened in the last few days. I ended up going over to her place afterwork ... and we talked things out. "inconsideration" issue was a little problem. We had bigger problems to work out. After 1 hour of talks (both ways), I believe we have worked things out. We'll see how things play out for the next little while. Yes, I am the Mr. Nice Guy. So, if any ladies happen to make their ways up to Vancouver Canada ... look me up thanks again

Here it goes. So, I spent the last weekend thinking about a lot of things (between us). Came to realized that I need to set some ground. Got myself all mentally prepared for the worst case. Now I was finally ready to let her go! As I was driving over to her place, 2nd thought came to my head. Biggest one said .... "you are a selfish bastard! you did see how much pain she is in on Monday morning. Can't you just imagine how much more pain she might have been on Friday? And you are thinking about breaking up with the girl you love? just because your needs are not getting met? what the fuck is wrong with you!?!" I parked on the street near her place (as usual), but instead walking into her building, I made it to a flower shop near by. Not sure why ... but I picked up a dozen red roses. As usual, she greeted me with a beautiful smile. I didn't get to say anything to her. Remember the smile? Instead, I was giving her back rub (lower back where she has pain) for the next 1 hour. Once I sense that everything is good ... I joked saying .. "So, I guess I can't even get mad at you for not calling me on Friday?" She smiled. I asked ... "you know,,,, you could have, should have at least called me. ... letting me know you are not going to be available for a few days or whatever." she said .... are you guys and gals ready for this? I didn't feel like it.with the innocent 3 years old kid's face. Just like I don't know anything in this world. I just did what I felt like doing ... innocent face. I burst out laughing. It was sooooooooooooo fucking cute, I had to laugh. Then she snuggled next to me and said ... "I am sorry. I am sorry." That's who the evening went. Went out for a walk, had a bite to eat at a small cafe ... pretty nice evening all around. .... FYI, we are not done. two total strangers. Not because of what happened last weekend, but because of other problems came up shortly after. It's been a hell. We thought we were going to patch things up yesterday (Friday), but got into another argument (probably the biggest) and I left her place. I have laid out everything on the table for her. It's up to her to decide what she wants to do with her life. She has until Monday evening to call me, if she wants to give it another go. Otherwise, my life goes on without her. Thanks guys and gals.

I am really glad I only read howard4570's before I went over to see her last night. We did talk little bit. Not the way I planned. But none the less ... interesting! I will explain more later. (it's bit embarrassing ) p.s. to those with "hubby, other boyfriend" talks. Every time I see her (which is like 2 ~ 3 times a week), I go over to her place. While she does have many many male friends, no BF or other man or men in her life. Like I said ... it's just "inconsiderate" issue, not "insecure" issue

I have this beautiful girlfriend whom I absoultely love. I would do anything for her. Now, the problem. Sure, everybody has problems, downsides, whatever. But this one drives me absoultely crazy! She has this "inconsiderate" problem. Or "Rude" Or "down right wrong!" When she is under stress, she disappears. Well, no phone calls, not answering my phone calls, not even returning calls for a couple of days. She's been doing this almost every single weekend to me now. It's that time of the month. She doesn't feel like talking to anybody. No answer, not returning calls. Until .. she feels better. We had dinner date. But, she got sick. She got tired. or whatever. no phone calls, no answer, not returning my calls. Past weekend, we were to go out for dinner on Friday. On thurs night, while she was out with friends, she tripped over and hurt her leg. Bringing her extream pain, she ended up staying in bed whole weekend. Well, what did I get? No phone calls. I called 4 times and left 2 messages on Friday. Nothing. Nothing on Sat. Nothing on Sun. Monday morning, she calls. I was ready to break up with her. No consideration? no respect? what's the point of the relationship? Right? I just went out for coffee with her for like 15 min., seeing her in extream pain (still!) I couldn't really say anything. I am to see her tonight after work .. maybe we will go out for light exercise together or something. What the hell am I supposed to do? Should I even talk about it? Should I break up with her? Once again ... I love everything about this girl ... except ... "inconsideration"

I have been thinking about shaving myself for quite some time. specially after hearing from girls after girls saying ... only if you shave your balls... you have no idea how long i can lick and suck those little balls ... this weekend, i finally broke down and did it! first scissors. trip down as much you can. then i used my electric shaver, but it didn't do that good of job. came out my disposable razor, but i managed to cut myself little bit. after surfing on some gay sites (wouldn't you agree that there're no one who will know better than gay guys about shaving down below?) i got myself "Gillette Fusion" and it's gel. expensive but let me tell you ... worth it! take a long hot shower, and apply gel all over your area. run the Fusion over hot water and shave yourself as you normally would. make sure to rinse out the Fusion every so often with hot water (i did it ever 2 strokes) not a single cut! and i got ALL area cleaned! what a feeling! can't wait till go see my girl on Monday night. see what she says or does

well... been with this girl for a while now. even though our sex life is great! she doesn't really like the oral part. she doesn't like to give BJ much even though she does from time to time. but biggest problem (at least for me) is that she doesn't want me to go down on her. it's NOT because i don't know what i am doing. I DO know. So I was told by many many different girls. Including this one. "You are good, that's why I let you go down on me a couple of times. But the whole wet feeling down there gross me out" any suggestions?