I gave up on ALL of the commercial so-called lubes. Most simple get too stiff too soon, and are like having glue for a lubricant; the rest simply dry out and stop 'lubing' things.
Coconut oil - the kind you can buy at the grocery store - has become the ONLY lube I use. Oral, jerking, anal penetration, fucking...it is very comfortably slick, it is long lasting, it washes off - but not so easily or quickly that you can't fully enjoy your play, and it's toy-friendly. Oh, and unless you really despise the flavor of coconut (it really doesn't taste THAT strong with a mouthful!) it's also edible and digestible.
I just used some to lube a condom that I used for my morning jerk. I started using condoms for my jerking because I'd wear my cock out by rubbing it if I didn't - I usually jerk twice-a-day or more since my wife just isn't 'into' any kind of sex any more (one time in the past nine weeks; twice in the past 13 weeks - and no sucking or eating, no rimming, and no anal play) and have to take care of me. And the coconut oil works with the condoms and toys, and all of the 'mess' stays well contained.
Just sayin!