Eve4mem

I'm currently trying to work my way up. I'm currently at a 1.1" width trying to work up to 1.25". I'm having 2 issues. 1 I'm not always in the mood for anal so I'm not always training my hole. 2 when I am in the mood for anal I'm really eager, I don't want to wait. I can cum just from anal, and usually it sets me off fast. So hard to slow down and not just push my toy in and out fast. Trying to figure out what to do so I don't cum just from the stretching and having to miss out on the actual thrusting.