Well that's the first time I've ever heard of a woman that wasn't into it, that is so crazy for me to hear..lol Maybe she just hasn't had it done right in the past or something.Unless her clit is super sensitive and it's painful?Mine is pretty sensitive and I will cum fast if it is licked/stimulated too much for too long, and after I cum i can't handle it being touched for awhile.But anyway all the things you refer to are great! Just start slowly and gently and make sure you use lube if you aren't able to use her natural juices.And there's a lot of advice forums you can read with illustrations on how to do it available on line also.If done correctly she will have a whole body orgasm where her body will spasm and shake, and that's how you will know she came.Im just curious if s is able to orgasm from other stimulation? Like I can cum from deep penetration from my cervix (my a spot),or squirting from g spot stimulation and clitoral orgasms.Anyway good luck π€