chickenmom

Okay everyone. We played with the two items we bought for the last two nights. One really didn't do anything for me, but the other, OH MOMMA! I actually climaxed several times each night. I now know what people are talking about. I should have done this years ago! I asked the hubby if he felt comfortable that I was able to climax with the toys and not him. He had no problem, especially now that he is my "Toymaster." I am so looking forward to trying new toys. I can't believe I actually climaxed. I'm still in shock. I never thought it would happen. I have this forum to thank for it. Y'all gave me the courage. I'll keep you posted.

I so want to be like you.

If you have a camera phone or digital camera, you can take a picture of certain areas of your body and send them to him. That way, when he's talking to you, he has something to see. I sent a picture to my hubby over the phone while he was in a meeting today. He had to leave the meeting right away to call me because he was so flustered.

Thanks everyone. Hubby and I went toy shopping just a few hours ago. He's older than I am and he's never done that either. It felt right shopping together. We have fully charged batteries and will test a few things tonight. I never thought I'd feel comfortable discussing these things with anyone, but everyone on this site is so caring. It means so much to someone like me. I'll let everyone know how it goes tonight. I'm really excited. Scared, but excited. Wish me luck.

Thanks for the advice. Now I have to be nosy. Are you a physician, or just extremely in tune with women?

[sorry. double post.

Thanks. I ordered several toys and had a few frank discussions with the hubby. I hope that helps. As far as the orgasm goes, I guess I'm not stimulating myself correctly or something. I'll have to keep trying. It's just very frustrating. I'll keep you posted.

I posted this on the beginner's forum, but I would really like to have some advice. I'm 37, married, 3 children, never had an orgasm, but now feel like I'm in heat. I have a tingling sensation in my genital area that is causing me to want sex all the time. I don't reach orgasm, however. Can anyone tell me what's happening with my body?

I am 37 and never had an orgasm and if the truth be told, I could have cared less about sex. Recently, however, I feel as though I'm in heat and need sex all the time. I am not able to orgasm though. I've tried manual stimulation with no luck. In the meantime, my genital area is constantly tingling and needing relief. Can anyone give me an idea of what may be happening?