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Interesting responses. My wife has tried to swallow, but has failed each time...but she DID TRY, which I respect. She doesn't like the taste, she gags..etc. however, this is also a person who can't even swallow liquid cold medicine... so the gag reflex is a valid physiological problem for her (yes, i am sure some of it is psychological as well).

i disagree as well. sure...resentment is possible, however, not entirely necessary. also, there is a big difference between WON'T VS. CAN'T when referring to swallowing...some women just can't do it or can't handle it. finally...i have met several women that swallowed and were FANTASTIC at it...but were terrible lovers, and poor mates. in the end, its importance is very limited.

not sure if this is good news or bad news, but i cum similar to Mikayla...and i am a GUY!!! i am all over the place, grabbing, twisting, pulling, scratching, screaming....all of it. and yes...i LAUGH uncontrollably after a great big O.... my wife thinks i am nuts!

definitely H and M.... no question about it. i'd even like to see the argument/debate afterwards!

FIRST thing? ..... eyes. SECOND thing?... body (overall) most POWERFUL thing?.... smell.

good for you! i guess my point with this post is that....swallowing, or lack thereof, doesn't really make or break anything. after reading all the posts here, you'd think that non-swallowers have a terrible sex life, as do their mates. yes...the sensation of having my cum swallowed is amazing. however....there are other amazing things....several other....and swallowing doesn't really provide for much visual excitement.

My wife sucks dick like a porn star...but won't and will never swallow (oh well, could be worse). I was curious about how to still make things great at the end and starting thinking about alternative finishes that could perhaps equal (or even outweigh) swallowing. I'd like to hear your thoughts on what you think is best. Here is what i came up with (no pun intended): a) standard hand finish at end of oral - at the first taste cum, it goes right to hand finish. For me, this is a so-so finish for the most part, as the sensation is not as intense at the end. However, i must admit that i do think it is hot when i am spurting cum everwhere. The sensation is not as good, but the visual is great, especially if the volume of cum is high. spit most of it out, finish rest by hand - this is what i am most accustomed to; it is REALLY intense at first, but again, once it goes to all hand action, the sensation is not as good. Also, having her spitting huge gobs of cum on my stomach is not too hot. c) somehow keep it all in mouth, spit at very end - if possible (some men cum a ton, which can make this impractical), this is a very intense feeling for the guy, and to me feels exactly the same as swallowing--i can't tell the difference, honestly. great sensation, but the spitting at the end is unattractive. d) spit early, then go back in - i have personally never experienced this, but i think it would feel wonderful if she would spit, then continue to finish me orally, then spit again. this would likely feel outstanding...but again, the spitting part is unattractive. e) "advanced" hand finish at end of oral - i love giving her facials, or pearl neckless, both of which are very hot and visually arousing; these are some of the most intense big o's i have had, even though they are by hand, as the act is kinda naughty and porno-ish. i'd even say that some of these have felt better than the swallowing experience, as i was really mentally into the process and very aroused. f)...no idea...i am sure i missed some things. In the end, I am not married to a swallower...which sucks in a way, but it is not the end of the world. While swallowing feels amazing...there is really no visual stimulus, which is something that is very appealing to me. So if i had my personal choice of her swallowing vs. a facial and/or pearl neckless... i'd probably struggle with the decision, as they could both be equally hot experiences.

If two dicks are exactly the same girth (average), but one is 6" long and the other is 7-7.5"... is there any benefit to the woman really? I have heard from women that small differences in girth can really make a big difference in sensation, but that length really isn't as important. True?

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obviously, physical appearance is first...however, SMELL is an amazing scent....and is very powerful.

i have heard many women say that size girth-wise is far more important than length. Is that true? If two dicks are exactly the same girth, but one is 6" and the other is 7-7.5"... is there any benefit to the woman really?

I am a frequent reader, but this is my first post ever (be gentle). Here is my issue... a) Wifey won't even CONSIDER anal-- we tried once, 3 years ago, and she immediately told me to stop (i think she was really nervous/anxious). She just said it hurt too much (and i am average size). However, i have heard from many friends, and on this board, that anal can lead to intense orgasms for women. My question is....how in the world is that possible? In other words, there are no C spot or G spot located in that vicinity, correct? Therefore, how can women be having these amazing orgasms from anal sex...when all the "equipment" is in the vagina? I just don't get it. Would love your thoughts...