I wpould like for sure to find out how to help you, my wife and I being married for 10 years we use to have sex all the time, every day. And on weekends more than once. Now is so hard for her to want to have sex becouse she is not in the mood, she even went to the doctor to see if she could get a pill or something and was trold that there is nothing for woman only viagra for man. I think it suck, I told her she needs to make and effor becouse I can wealk aroun all day with a hard on and I don't want to cheet on her. But I am loaded and I am affraid that iot may happen. We try porno and it seems to help, some times. I wish you find an answer. let me know...