squishy

i have two favorites. SoftTouch Kitty this adorable little kitten keeps me company when i'm away from my fiance. i'm maybe a once-a-week-er since i'm busy with papers and stuff in grad school. but sometimes i need an afternoon snack to keep me focused. the best thing about it is that it brings me to orgasm really quickly but leaves me able to repeat right away since it's not too much stimulation. also, the vibrator in the klitty can be used with or without the soft attachment for a different sensation. Cyberskin Saturn this ordinary little ring we use together (clearly). every few sessions we use it just to switch things up a bit and give us a little more time to experiment with more positions. it's nothing fancy, and we don't have any trouble with endurance, but it's nice to have that extra long time to be extra close. these are made of the same material and it's nice that they're not abrasive or hard to the touch. i'd really recommend you try products similar to these if you haven't yet.

so the boy is moving away and i need to find some help. we went to the todd (an adult shop that doesn't make me feel utterly creeped out? really!?) in tampa a few months ago on vacation and i bought my first dildo. it's huge and i think i want to find something a little more practical for ordinary use. it's also hard rubber and that made me more unhappy than i thought it would. i don't like the idea of the jelly but i'm not sure. also. i'm interested in experimenting with an anal toy. lately i've been having a lot of trouble climaxing and when i do i have been getting abdominal cramps. (i know some stds can cause this but i've been tested for everything and i'm clean.) i've decided to get a bullet but i might get one with nubs or something. any advice is more than welcome.

i bought my first dildo (and toy period) in june. i made a bad choice. it's an 8inch possibly 2.5 inch thick hard rubber realistic with these odd little bumps for the clit... if you can get it that far. i say it was a mistake because i wasn't ready for it. but it was still really fun. take it slow and maybe try as part of an extended session... for the second or third go round. that way you're well warmed up. also, use lube. i recommend wet. i've tried a couple kinds and that's the better. it also came highly lauded from friends.