shytigress09

lol I'll think about getting a paddle, but not right now.... maybe for christmas. I'm not sure if he'd let me tie him up or if I'd be daring enough to even suggest it lol

ok, thanks for the advice! I think I will get the tie the knot kit. lol Mikayla I would get a whip or paddle for him but I'm pretty sure he'd use it in public more than in private. His hand is enough.

I was only thinking the rope just in case we lose the keys lol seems like that would be easier to get out of and go other places with. I'll check out the other restraints! Thanks! Has anyone tried the Vanilla Bondage kit? (I think it's so cute that it come in an ice cream container!) If so, how long are the ties? Any other recommendations? I have to ship this to england so I have to buy the gift(s) this week.

I'm thinking about buying my bf a couple bondage related gifts for our one year (on the 23rd). He's always talking about handcuffing me and he knows I'm interested but he's never done it. Now today we were talking about it and I said that I didn't think he'd actually do it and that he was just joking around (he's said he's not into any bondage), but he says that he would... if he had handcuffs. So I started thinking about him some restraints for an anniversary gift (is that weird? lol) and have them sent to him at school (I wish I could see the look on his face when he opens the package!), but I'm not sure if handcuffs are a good choice... I've read Mikayla's review on Japanese Bondage Rope so I was thinking about that. Any other ideas? ~Tiger

Well I did the after shower test and it was sticky. I think I might have the gel. I think I'll suggest that to my bf, Tyger. lol not that I think he'll mind testing out the lubes.

I'll try the shower idea since I still have the bottle and I'll let ya'll know. Thanks!

I found the conversation (super long distance relationship so we talk online all the time) and that's where my siggy came from. I don't really mind that I say dirty stuff during sex, it's just a problem when he starts talking about it and I have no idea what he's talking about. Thank you for telling me how common it is! ~Tiger

I thought I might've been the one to find it sticky, but I talked to my bf about it last night and he said he found it sticky too. Is it possible that I got an off batch? I have some too timid lube but I haven't tried it yet... I'll look into Swiss Navy too! Thanks!

I recently tried it (based on Mikayla's review and other advice) and ended up a bit itchy afterwards... well until I washed it off. It was also a little sticky and had a funny smell to it... but other than that it worked great. Long lasting and all that good stuff lol I guess I might be allergic to it or maybe I got an off batch. Oh well... I guess I need to keep searching for my go to lube.

lol I tend to scratch him too and I guess I'm way louder than I think I am... and he claims I grab his butt every once and a while too. We argued for about two days about that one. He forgets about hickies he's given me and asks me later how I got a bruise on my chest. I'm glad I'm not the only one who doesn't remember certain things!

You broke a metal bed??

lol my bf has a british accent and a deep voice... sometimes I just sit there and stare at him when he talks. *sighs* now I'm going to have to call him up. I miss him whispering in my ear.

I absolutely love my calves, the length of my legs (don't particularly like my thighs), my hands and my lips.

ok I know dirty talk can be a fun part of sex and I love when my bf whispers naughty things in my ear before (which he seems to love to do while I'm cooking, but that's another story) and during sex. Anyway, we were talking the other day and the conversation somehow turned to the dirty stuff I say, which I thought wasn't much more than the occasional "harder". Turns out I say way more than that and half the stuff he says I say makes me blush and cover my mouth with my hands. Now I don't think he's making it up because I do remember talking during sex but I don't remember saying anything... well that dirty. Does this happen to anybody else? Or am I just having some split personality moments during sex?

hmm... ok. I'll get some astroglide then! Thanks!! Oh wait! Astroglide has glycerin... does anyone know if it's vegetable glycerin? Nevermind lol I went to the astroglide site. "Are there animal products in Astroglide? There are no animal products in Astroglide." so it must be vegetable glycerin.

lol I see what you mean! I was looking at Body Fluid by fun factory... but I'm not sure. I'm finally going to see my bf after about 4 months (really long distance). We're going to spend a little over 3 weeks together during both of our christmas holidays. He says I should get a lot, so would silicone be better?

I tried to find reviews but I didn't see too many. Are water-based lubes the best or should I go for silicone? Are there any water-based that are glycerin-free (other than the too timid kind, I already have some of that lol)? Which brands are the best? I've heard a lot about astroglide... I've tried KY but I didn't really like that one.

Thank you so much! I ordered the life saver one to try, along with a bottle of lube and the toy cleaner wipes. I decided against the shower pal for now. Maybe I'll try that one next time.

I wasn't looking for clitoral stimulation, since I didn't need it to orgasm with my bf. Basic is fine with me. It doesn't have to be realistic looking lol I've read the reviews and I read the beginners sex toy guide. I really just need something since my boyfriend thinks it's fun to have me turned on while we're chatting online knowing I don't like fingering myself. He thinks I'm just uncomfortable with it since I am pretty shy, so he tries to get me worked up enough so I can try it.

my boyfriend and I are an ocean apart and so I'm looking for my first sex toy since I don't like fingering myself. I'm interested in trying a vibrator but I need something discret and quiet since I live in a college dorm with a roommate (she'd understand, but our guy friends are often found hanging around our room and don't have a problem going through anything left out on our dressers or desks.). So any help would be appreciated! ~Tiger