Muffy

Try riding your partner facing his head. That will give his penis and foreskin a possible cahace of touching your G spot. That is when foreplay such as oral sex by your partner will help and possibly get you worked up with an orgasm or two. If that first position doesn't work try facing his feet. Doggie style helps some I know. Another good way is missionary with your legs and feet on his shoulders on either side of his neck. It is comfortable and for the shorties out there it allows for deeper penetration.

Every woman should be able to play with her hood and clit and also reach down cup your hand or a couple fingers up in the vagina and find her G spot. It is an area of skin or tissue that feels diff than the rest. The spot may be as small as a dime or large as a quarter. It may take time but when you find it then you will know what an orgasm truly is and feels like. Just work and keep trying. Most of all take your time and be gentle to yourself. If you have a GF that can use her hand , fingers or tongue then work together finding the hot zones. Every woman has diff spots that set her off. No two are exactly the same. One may have a small G spot and another a larger one. You know where it feels good and those are the areas to concentrate on. good luck.

Listen to Jen. Thge sensitive nerves are at the entry and in a few inches of the vaginal opening. Why have a long dong and bang the cervix?? There isn't as much feeling there. The G spot is just inside the vagina and as Jen said the clit and hood are right out there begging for attention.

I am all for the suggestions of a few ladies that men should be also taught to give "GOOD ORAL" sex to the women!! That is one reason you will see so many women together. Women know what feels good and can please one another far easier than men. Men have got to learn more about giving GOOD oral sex to women. There are many tapes out that may help and if they are used it should be both watching and trying together. The days of only giving head are gone. Now it is the women who should receive. It is also a super way of performing or having foreplay!! The men are hot to trot but just want head and then jump on, go to it and then roll over and play dead after expending their load(s). Who wants that when foreplay will warm any woman up and then they may produce a better service for their partner. Try to make it last and they (the men)will receive more gratification in the long run day after day. Also don't turn over and go to sleep or leave the room for a beer. There is such a thing as after play even if it is only hugging, kissing , fondeling and numerous other things that will make their partners fell so relaxed and happy. Then you can both snooze a bit and rest for the second or third round. You men will get more from it that way instead of the quickies. Oh a quickie is nice, very nice now and then when time for any long session is short. If a man wants to blow between my tits and have a swallow then let him give me oral and get unbder me to enjoy yhe fine juices that may come from one or more orgasms. Lets play the game fair and equal from both sides of the field.

Anna2323 if U want a good one get one of the clear glass ones. They (most should ) have a good guarantee on breakage or not being porous to pick up any bacteria and never wear out either. Look at your diff sex shop sites and see what they say. ASK and u will find out. They may be more expensive but if u have to buy 3 or 4 others it will save in the long run. If Ha Ha someone comes at you they will sub for a billy club too.

Anna2323 if U want a good one get one of the clear glass ones. They (most should ) have a good guarantee on breakage or not being porous to pick up any bacteria and never wear out either. Look at your diff sex shop sites and see what they say. ASK and u will find out. They may be more expensive but if u have to buy 3 or 4 others it will save in the long run. If Ha Ha someone comes at you they will sub for a billy club too.

From the female point of view it is soooo much nicer to have a partner to talk to and discuss so many things. You can't talk to a dildo or other things. A partner is the way to go but DO NOT pick any John that may come along. Find one you may know that is not a pussy hopper and the chances of a clean man are better. FIRST ALWAYS USE A CONDOM!! Even these boys or men will tell you it doesn't feel as good with a condom. Baloney to them!! Good condoms are available now so there is very little a mans penis can't feel while wearing one. Learn how to open and put one on the partner and that will help. If you know a man about your age that is a virgin then it may work out better. Talk it over and let each other know what you want, if something hurts or feels good. If you need to-get a book and find the diff positions, the various body parts and what they are for and the best way to go at all of this so as to better please yourselves. Find out what may be your and his erogenous zones or places on your body as well as his. When you start just kissing, hugging,embracing one another you or he may find different places that will send you or give you a new feeling that makes you jump!! It is something you can both tell and you may know by an orgasm or vaginal wetness to an extreme. If this will be your first forget about giving him head (taking his penis orally) and the same for him giving you oral sex. So many men want a woman to give them head and then blow all over their partner. If women could do that then the tables would turn. Other women may have a diff opinion but that is mine and I get as much as I want and I am choosy. If you get a partner that attempts to drive his penis all the way to your spine then tell him to ease off. As first timer it will probably hurt and another thing to remember is most of the nerves that set you off ot flying and make you have multiple orgasms are at the entry or within the first few inches in your vagina. The same with a mans penis. There are touchy spots along the under side and some around the scrotum. By and large most of the touchy area of his penis is at the head and back to the foreskin and along the underside. Every man is different as are women. You must have some girlfriends, older sis, cousins that are sexually active. If so talk to them and see what they say. If they say this is wrong then there may come a day when you or they may regret their attitude. The male is messing with your reproductive organ!! If it is messed up in any way then you may NEVER be able to get pregnant and bear a child. That is another reason to not have sex while "Aunt Flo" is visiting you every month. You didn't learn to read ,write or drive a car in one day so take your time and go at this sex with a partner slow and easy. I have probably left out or forgotten a great many things but the other ladies and Jen can always fill in and give you good (hopefully) pointers. See U around, and good luck. Hope I was able to help in some small way.

To SC19 the hurt may come quiker than you think. There is a great deal of bacteria in the anal area and even if it is super clean to you there always may be some residue left. How do you think all the disease and deaths were caused in the movie industry approx 10 or 15 years ago. Now they use condoms all the time except a few wildcat companies. All you have is the perineum between the anus and labia! Take your chances with your woman but respect her health. Ask Jen??

From what Jen said not all dildos are built the same and some will wear out (not from use) from the water, chemicals in it and various other things. They have so many different materials it is hard to decide. I have a friend that has a sex shop and he said the best for long life and cleaning is one of the glass ones. From what I read and hear they are non porous and will last forever. with no detergent or chemicals messing them up. Give me your opinion Jen before I put out the extra bucks for one?? If they last that is the best of the deal. No batteries or vibrator but then what man has batteries or a vibe on his dong??

If you want something new then make it positions. Use 3 or 4 different ones for a week or 2 then drop 1 and add another. In this period DROP the "Missionary" position completly and then after 4 or 5 weeks or more use it once in awhile. There are also many versions or styles of the Missionary so try them all but not at once. Variety helps increase the interest in any sex. The one about testing for a threesome was good. If either of you fool around with a third person anytime it is "always" good to be tested. To save any worry be tested before the time or sex act starts. A condom should always be used but it is no good in case of oral sex by anyone of you. A dental dam has been used along with other methods but none are foolproof. The best place for testing is as I stated in the anal sex is http://www.aim-med.org They have a self explanatory site for all diseases and also if you are not sure of anything CALL and talk to the ones that have the info and can give the best advice. Their tests will cover a lot more than the local labs. It is also private and nobody knows except them and you what the results are.

The prime things to remember for anal sex is "TAKE IT SLOW, "ALWAYS USE A CONDOM", USE LOTS OF LUBE, ( the KY type). BE RELAXED." "THOSE 4 ARE THE MAIN ONES." Men don't expect to enter the first time. It may take several days, weeks to do this. The muscles around the anal area are tender not easily rebuilt (if possible) and once messed up can cause undetermined harm. "You men just imagine if the table were turned and we could shove a great big cock up your ass in nothing flat. Not so funny then. Talk to your doctor. Don't be bashfull, he/she hears and sees more than you can imagine. If it is something new he/she will probably refer you to a man/woman that knows about such topics a great deal more. I think Jen covered it all very thoroughly. Be clean and a shower together. It sure helps relieve any tension a great many of us have before sex. If you wish to get the inside opinion on all of this and what can or may happen go to: http://www.aim-med.org If that doesn't explain your questions then call and answers will be forthcoming. Don't try to BS them since anyone on the staff has heard all the tales from everyone, everywhere!!

One point was brought up but not really mentioned again. That is what a person (male or female) eats is or has a great deal to do with any bad orgasm tastes! If you are a veggie and meat person OK, but don't add a lot of spices such as garlic and also many beers or different liquors will tend to add to a bad taste. Whether you're getting oral or giving head the shoe fits both ways. So many men should know how to give oral as well. It is a two way street and we all should learn to use it.

If you have a nice tub get yourself positioned with your legs up on either side of the faucet. Have the warm water slowly drip down on your labia and it feels soooo good. After awhile your labia will slowly open and the warm water will in time cause you to have super gushing. It is a super good way of foreplay when you are by yourself. It will relieve any tension buildup and be so relaxing. If it hurts your back then position yourself over a towel to cushion the hard tub bottom. Be sure to have the "water" "not too hot" but just on the "warm side."

First reassure your love for her. Ask her what she would like to do and seek her opinion on your sex in privacy in your bedroom. You may ask her if she would like to use or try a new &/or different position rather than the "missionary" all the time. Maybe use 2 or 3 others and forget the missionary for 3 or 4 weeks. Gradually use different positions each time. Don't be boring. Above all let her get into the act and ask her what she feels is best suited to her taste &/or feelings. Play it slow, rushing her could set you back and have to start all over again. Have you tried or given her oral sex? If so do it slow and never rush. It is a super way of having foreplay and getting her really ready for vaginal penetration. Do not ever hurry any oral sex. If it takes an hour so what? It will give both of you pleasure and may lead to longer sessions. The rabbit sex is no good for most or all women. Hop on bam, bam, thank you mam, hop off, kiss her and roll over and go to sleep. If you have foreplay and nice sex then use a little discretion and give her 15 or 30 minutes of after play. Hug her, kiss her, tell her your feelings of love to her. Use your own head or thoughts in something like this. Then you can hold each other and go to sleep, both in a contented and happy mood.

Take it very slow and above "ALL, USE plenty of Lubrication!!" ALWAYS use a condom and "DO NOT" use a petroleum jelly or Vaseline type base lube!! It may take many days &/or attempts but "Rome wasn't built in a day" so don't despair. You may never make it either. Too much stretching can or may stretch &/or break the sphincter muscles in the anus and doing that is not worth the anal sex in the long run. Then you will develop "LB" or commonly known as "leaky bowels!!" If you are determined to do this try it with a dildo or someone witha smaller penis that will move in slowly and to the point it will or doesn't hurt and feel you are being stretched too much. Gradually work your way up in size w/dildos. Lube, Lube, Lube all the time. One way to try this is "YOU BE" in control and sit on top and ease down on the penis as you feel fit!! If it feels tight then ease up and repeat slowly. Remember plenty of lube. Start out with your being on top to begin and always if you wish. Slow is the BEST WAY. Lots of LUBE goes with it. Always use a CONDOM. Never penetrate or enter the vagina after anal sex unless a NEW (fresh) condom is used. "NEVER!!"