Muffy

Many times it is in what a man eats. Garlic or many spicy, highly seasoned foods can be a big diff. Try a change if you can get the food change for a period of time before the action starts.

Do you know or have you found your "G" spot?? If you have then play with it and teach him where it is. Go gentle and slow, this is in a vital and tender area. Treat it as such. Also you may play with your clit as you have sex with him. Ask Jen. She may have some good articles and be able to assist you.

Treat this giving head as if you were holding a candy sucker in your hand or a popsicle. You never try or attempt to swallow them whole!! work your way around and take it slow and easy. Go down to catch a drip here and there - go back and forth. Keep your hand on it for control. Some women can never swallow the whole penis. Everyones throat is diff. Use it as a sucker or p'sicle. It will give better results and more reaction over the long road ahead.

I have a close friend in the piercing buz. She said women of all ages get tongue piercings and also some think it is not so hot. As for giving head she said it is about 50/50. I take that to mean some men like it and it turns them on and others just the opposite. She said the biggest turn on for her is a labia piercing. It also tends to turn the partner on a little more. It is also an asset for both when performing and receiving oral sex. Myself I think tongue piercings are ugly but everyons taste is diff (no pun intended). As for infections it is best to follow the instructions of the one doing the piercing. They are nothing to play with and think they will heal overnight.

To lilmillie: Play it cool-there are plenty out there wanting what you have to offer. Check them or him out. Don't spread yopur legs for the first bimbo that sounds or looks good. You sound young so take your time and see what he has to offer in common sense and stability. Some are like rabbits-hop on-hop off and so long!1 When you look for jeans or a dress you don't pick the first one that catches your eyes. Take your time. Also not all towns have dance clubs. Most keep the corners well lit so - you be the judge ..........

Jen, I like everything you mentioned. Every woman is diff and what will bring one will not necessarily bring all. I like it and the thrill and goose bumps pop out when a tongue &/or lips explore up and down my legs. This is especially good when it is the inner thigh, calf and behind the knees. Don't rush as if going to the store for a loaf of bread . If you're having sex and giving a womaan oral sex pick a time when you have time. No quickies here to really get the job done right and bring a reaction from your mate. Men or women use your mouth, fingers and tongue in giving oral sex. They can &/all should work together. Most men and many women think the clit is that little puff under the hood. What you see and feel is like an iceberg. When it is tickled, licked or touched it brings out a sensation and enlarges the clit so it comes out of its hiding place from under the skin & hood and is (many women differ) huge compared to the normal clit withpout stimulation. I like the hood to be tickled and have lips, tongue and fingers on, around or over it to tickle or stimulate it. With me receiving oral sex is a combo of all the exterior kissing, licking and feeling and using the play around the outer lips along with the inner lips or labia. Also do not foget our breasts. They are sensitive and I love to have mine fondled, licked or held in any type of sexual activity. They all go together. Take your time and most important work with your mate. If one thing doesn't excite or give her the feeling of a possible orgasm then ask and try another approach. Don't forget the first though. Again what excites or stimulates one woman will not work or do the same on another. We are all different-remember that!! Follow what Jen said. She has some super ideas and can fill any of us on topics like this all the time.

If you have a good marriage and a husband that is not running around then forget the idea of even sleeping with her. In the same bed together could lead to to the beginning of s bi-sexual lifestyle. If your hubby found out you can lose everything as one has pointed out. A piece of ass or a behund the doors bi-sexual life can only lead to trouble. Take a good look at your ass in the mirror. If you like it the way it looks then forget this idea because if hubby catches you that ass you look at now will be lost in the turmoil and never look good again!!

There are the covers they use in hospitals under the sheets. They aren't too big but are available in most drug stores. Not too expensive either.

I hate to bust your bubbles but there are some new ones out. I saw one on AVN and decided to look for others. Guess what?? I am (or was) a waxer with aloe to soothe the areas afterwards. I found these new ones but do no know which to get. They all have big promises. If & when I get one I will let you all know. http://www.intimatepersonalshavers.com http://www.beavershaver.com http://www.swingerzone.com/shaver.htm http://personalshavers.com Take your choice and let the rest of us know. Oh one has a razor with a curved blade and not any more than a regular. There is also a spot on one that has a wax deal. It hurts cause they say it does. An after thought; I have shaved for years and finally come across something kthat is super. Instead of a cream or soap I use a generic KY jelly. It is smooth, you can see what you're doing and all isn't covered by cream.If it starts to dry just dab it with a very little water.

You may be considered to be legally blind but where I'm from, legally blind doesn't mean one cannot see any light. It merely means one cannot see clearly and the help of strong glasses still don't make all clear. The progressive or fast type of macular degeneration could be as bad where one sees light but it is only shadows. The slower moving type has a person with no vision in the center of the eye and only around the outside radius. That is somethng that should never hold up an active sex life. The bone trouble should be something to ponder. If it has reached the point where a break may occur then I can see to take it slo and easy. Many of the others may be overcome with proper diet, exercise and good advice from a person that is mnot in it just for a counseling fee. I would say that both of you have the prime body parts needed for one of the main facets of super sex. You have your hands, mouths, tongues and lips. What more is needed for good oral sex?? As for vaginal sex it is a try and try again as for positions that suit and work best for both of you. There are so many positions for you to try. If you're shy then you will be up the creek. If not ask a close lady friend about the diff positions. You may ask her to show you and in extreme circumstances go thru them with you. The same may hold for your husband although men aren't as close and talkkitive with each other as we women. In some cases I have known men that blabbed all the time about any and everything. I can't think of anything else at the moment. Let some of the other ladies chime in Good luck - hope that helped ...............

From your email I would say you are doing all the acts to keep him aroused and coming on to you. Get together and see if he will have a little input in this relationship?? It seems the way you feel now is you will lose him if you don't improvise and do or get something he likes everytime he comes over. Even though he is a new lover it should be a two way street with both of you working to please and make the other one happy. Talk it over and get his thouights. If he is a one way man and wishes you to do all the pleasing then it is up to you to decide if you should continue. Keep us informed. I will relate my thoughts and decisions at a future date. Good Luck ............

I am with Jen. I had them and could have done without. Now it is a thing of the past with me. No more since the era of so many doing it and here fuck, there fuckk, evrywhere fuck fuck and they wonder where the STD's are coming from. I don't want any passed on to me. Another way STD's get started is careless anal sex without "good" protection and good cleaning up and disposal after a session.

Jazzie the best thing to have as someone suggested is a "good" discussion on the pros and cons of whether it will be another man or woman. Myself I think you will be happier or I am with another woman. Who but another woman knows all the spots to touch and really send you than another woman?? You know your body very well and another woman would be the same and know where to touch you. It is up to you and the husband to decide. "Don't make a mistake and get another man and woman at the same session!!"

Crznby, just remember when doing anal always use plenty of lube, a condom for the male and rubber gloves for the woman. By a woman entering a man it is the "prostate" gland you tickle and be gentle with it. It will send him gushing if done correctly. Always use protection and lots of lube for any anal sex!!

If one has a large stool hard to eliminate itis usually called primary constipation and it will over time weaken the muscles &/or cause bleeding around the anal area. Use a stool softner to stop this and have regular movements with no grunt and groan.