ok i know mostly here are women talking about the anal thing, but for a shy, timid, guy that is gay,, i have only tried it like 2 times, and the first time it was on my side, which worked for me but then he wanted to go doggie style I guess you could say.. is it me or did it feel like there was a certain limit that he could go? in other words I would have loved for him to go deeper, but is there like an (not trying to sound gross) organ or something there that begins to hurt. He was about 8.5 inches.. I'm only 5'9/ 130lbs and pretty fit and masculine, but that fustrated me., and another question i had is .... do you feel like you have to go when he starts,,, you know what i mean...I felt worried that something would happen if he pulled out.. it didn't however, but it felt that way, and is there any tips on preparing maybe... thanks gals!!