well the conciving part is going to be hard I have what is commonly abreviated as pcos " polysystic ovarian syndrome" we went to the dr and he prescribed meds to help ovulate correctly and such but it is going to take time so there should be no reason for the wham, bam now lets go to bed situation in my eyes. lets see hubby gets home in two hours and then he is going to want to go skate board probally which is taking away from our time together then he is going to want me to do all kinds of stuff then I will get ok lets go to bed we have work in the morning. which leaves no talking time nor any sexual time. I am not going to stray away I am just going to talk to him and see if that will help my situation any and then if it doesn't Im going to send him here to read and get advice on such topics. I openly admit that I do have a high sex drive where he doesn't. plus I can take alot and he never gives me as much as I need. so in turn Im just now sure what to do. maybe calm my self down and when he is ready then I will be to.