coleyjames

you know the saying "once a cheater always a cheater"? my fiance cheated on his ex at least 3 times that i know of, including once with me. he has never given me any reason to believe that he has cheated on me or any reason not to trust him. it just sucks, we have been together for 2 years now and have a baby girl that is 6 months old which has brought us close together but yet farther apart. since she has been born i think more and more that i am not good enough for him any more and that he's cheating but i dont think he is. we cant go out together anymore and have a good time because we end up in a huge fight that we are usually both to blame. i never used to care who he was talking to at the bar and now i have been so jealous i cant stand it. what is wrong with me? shouldn't i have been more jealous at the beginning and not now? i go every single day thinking that he is going to cheat on me, i dont tell him though, that would just start a fight. he tells me that he loves me all the time. has anyone else gone through this awful jealousy stage? is it just a stage? will it ever end? i also get very pissed lately when he insists on watching porn while we have sex and instead of looking at me he's watching the damn tv the whole time.

Ok, so i think that i have pretty much read everything possible about g-spot orgasms, clit orgasms, blow jobs and everything else. it has all helped me so much, except for 1 problem i still have and think i will have 4 ever. no matter what we do i cannot have a g-spot orgasm, i cant even have a clit orgasm unless i am alone, taking care of it myself. my husband tries so hard to get it done but it just doesnt happen. its not even fun anymore. i just lay there wishing i will have one, so he doesnt feel like he is doing something wrong. it used to be more fun when we didnt care about me having an orgasm. when we are having sex i am concentrating so hard that it is like i am somewhere else. i dont know how to just relax and enjoy myself. i have heard that listening to music during sex helps. does anyone know if thats true? i'm just so frustrated! i want to enjoy our time together cause we dont get to very often.

i know that masturbation is normal for everyone and i do it myself, but the other night i couldnt sleep so i went down our hallway and from there i can see the computer and saw my fiance getting off, looking at porn, i have never walked in on him before, and for some reason it still bothers me and i dont know why, i had wanted to have sex that night and he said that he wasnt in the mood, and was also in a hurry for me to go to bed, so i guess i was surprised to see it, we have watched porn together in the past, i am pregnant and have gained lots of weight so far, and feel very insecure lately about how i look, so maybe i was just jealous, i dont know, i just dont know why i cant get over it, sorry about all this babbling.

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thank you for your advice! after i posted this last night i decided to start working on my problem tonight.so i had a couple drinks to help me relax and took a long bath and waited for my man to get off work. when he got home he took a shower and i hardly even gave him a chance to dry off. i took him to the bedroom and he had been complaining about how bad his back hurt all night at work so i threw him on the bed and rubbed massage oil all over his body and gave him the best massage he had ever gotten. after that i jumped ontop and just started kissing him all over (even that he is not used to) he started to eat me out as usual and i made him stop so that i could give him some pleasure for once. and i did it!! he loved it!! i dont know what came over me. i cant say that i suddenly like to do it, buthopefully i will get better. the only thing that he didnt like is that i still never have had an orgasm with him. i have no problems using my toys and doing it myself(which he gets kinda upset about) but no matter what we use, or how turned on i am, i just cant get myself to that point unless i am in the room by myself and that really starts to get old. i want us to be able to orgasm together. but oh well at least last night was GREAT!

i am 26 years old and finally in a relationship with someone who cares about pleasing me. i honestly never really knew what that was before now. i was in a bad relationship for about 7 years with the father of my children and all he ever did was say "take you clothes off im sticking it in" so that was what our sexual relationship was like. there was no foreplay. the guy i am with now is the complete opposite, i give him oral once in awhile and i recieve a lot more than i give but i just dont enjoy giving it to him , and i want to get over that and i have been trying too and he gets frustrtated with me and i dont blame him. i cant even have an orgasm with him or any man for that matter, i am a very shy person so he is always in control (sexually) i think that i am worried about he thinks, or that i am not doing something right, so i just let him take control, i know it would shock the hell outa him if i did take control but i cant seem to get myself to do it./ any suggestions?

i am 26 years old and have just recently had my first orgasm. i too have to have clit and g-spot stim to make it happen. the first time i was like "WOW" so thats what i have been missing all these years. but my only problem is, i did it by myself with my toys and i still can't have one with my SO. so he gets upset because he thinks that he is not good enough for me.