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I am one of those guys, there is now way that I would have sex with a girl for the first time and go down on her. I wouldn't go down on a girl until we were at the point in the relationship when we are having unprotected sex, we trust each other and we were sure that we were STD free and monogamous. I would say wait until there is a trend before you say that he won't give you oral. To answer your question on how to get a man to enjoy giving Oral is simple. If you learn to give him some Magical BJ's. Give him Tons of Oral; he will fall in love with them. Then one day after you see that he is addicted to them, say that you won't do it anymore unless he gives you oral. Then after he tries it, try a few 69's then after that I am pretty sure that oral sex will no longer be an issue. Good luck.

I would suggest that you find a Swingers club. I think it would be easier to find a responsible and STD free man and it also opens your relationship up to 3 or 4somes is you so desire.

The reason it’s called a BJ is because that’s what a woman literally did before sucking became popular. She would put the penis in her mouth, mouth wide open and blow so that only the lips made contact. Sucking only became popular after women learned how to suck without making their teeth touch the penis. I am sure that I am not the only one that has scars on their penis from inexperienced girls learning to give "SuckJobs"

I have one, and its pretty good, it has the strongest vibe out of the 3 different stimulators that we have, I dont know how much my wife like it though but i know gets the job done.

Hi all, I have had this problem forever but I have never asked anyone about it. If I get an erection within roughly 12hrs after sex them it will be a painful erection. It has always been like this, it gets hard just like a normal erection but it will be a constant painful erection. It feels like I have an erection with a full length tourniquet on it. Any one else have this problem or know what it is? It works and many times i have had sex with the pain just so that i can have sex with a partner the morning after sex or while trying to make up for a short first performance <--- that doesnt happen often Any help thanks

Is Anal sex between married couples safe without protection? I have heard yes and no I was just wondering what you experts say here. I would like to try Anal with my wife but i was just wondering if I need to go out and buy condoms too.

I am 54% fuckable, so I guess that means that 54% of the women in the world want me

Thanks for the info. The main reason I have never attempted to bring up the subject is the fear of her asking me to return the favor and bring another guy in our bedroom. So I don’t think I will ever have the courage to ever ask because even if she told me that she was thinking about it then that alone would upset me. Its not that I am selfish because the truth is I would be just as happy if she agreed to be with another girl and only let me watch or maybe partake in the threesome but have no sexual contact with the other girl. I will try all your suggestions though but I will leave the ménage-a-talk out of our discussion. Thanks again.

So hi everyone, I found this site while searching for better techniques for cunnilingus as well as other questions. I found most of my answers and I did some shopping but I still have one question. Ok so we all know that most (if not all) men for some reason want to be with two women. I would just like to know how can I make this work, i.e. How can I bring it up to here without, pissing her off, making her think that I don’t love her, making her think that want to be with someone else other than her, have her think that because I was with another woman then she should either sleep with other men or ask me to invite another guy into the bedroom. It’s not a "I want to sleep with another woman" thing. I love my wife and if there was a way to turn her into two women for one night then that would be all that I would want and nothing more. She looked at me once and said that she would do absolutely anything that I want; even though she said that I am not sure if this is included so I never asked for it. How would this affect our marriage if I ask and she says no and how would it affect our marriage if I asked and she said yes. Any suggestions or personal experiences will be greatly appreciated, Thanks!