joannelyl

Aha. Missed those 2 posts. Well, it only proves I don't visit the forum enough. Thanks for the 2 links, they were very interesting to read. LOVE that cute box!! I want 3 of those for all my toys. I'd love to have my toys next to my night stand, but alas... well, besides my Mom, I have had nieces and nephews who found my toys. The boys either use it as a sword/knife or fly them around like little rocket ships, and those are easily dealt with by offering ice creams, but one rascal actually was able to find my pink and clear double end dildo (I swear I packed them in the suitcase after play) and swung it around like a light saber, with sound effect and such. No amount of candy and ice cream with rob him off his prized laser sword, and in the end I had to give him the blue metal baseball bat my boyfriend made me keep under the bed to exchange it, by telling him the bat's bigger and more powerful before letting him out of my room. Fortunately (for me anyway), he went straight down stairs to his mom swinging it around like a jedi knight, and screaming "mommy I found a light saber!!" and making those sound effects. My aunt was absolutely horrified that he was swinging a bat around, immediately went over and grabbed the bat away from him, and gave him a long and stern scolding right in the living room, so much that the poor kid sobbed and cried. Luckily for me, he didn't have the chance to reveal the real light saber he found to my mom and my aunt. (I hope it doesn't develop into childhood trauma) The girls are usually not interested and brush them aside, (wait till you grow up, you don't know what you all are missing) or shrikes "so cute!!!!!" and so far I have managed to make them forget about the cute little pink vibrating egg or the jelly rabbit by offering some small, inexpensive earrings, necklaces, hair pins and other trinkets, or just simply play dress up and put pretty make ups on them. So far none seem to have remembered discovering those cute little tiny things. More than a few times I have found 1 or 2 of my lubes, dildos or vibe on my dressing table, together with my bottles of skin care and make up products, and I suspect it’s either my mom who put them there, or the cleaning lady I hire to clean my house before big festivals. Off course, the people who most frequently discovers my toys laying around are either my boyfriends (ex and present) and my closes girlfriends. For the boy friends, it’s usually because I deliberately left the toys around for them to discover (sometimes), and the girls will have a ball teasing me till I am flushed. My cats once tried their best to kill the jelly dildo I left behind, but so far they haven't threatened me that they will reveal to anyone in exchange for more liver cans. (If you must know, that jello dildo was totally ruined by tier claws and teeth. I was so sad about it that I didn't do anything and let them continue to torture the poor dildo. Only after they lost their interest and went to their favorite spot to lick themselves that I realised I should not have let it suffer more. I believe in Karma, and I know one day I'll be punished for watching that dildo go through so much agony at the paws of my cats without as mush as lifting a finger. Bless the soul of that loyal, close friend.

Where do you store your toys? How do you store them to avoid embarrassing moments like when visitors or relatives arrive? Especially for those who have young, curious, adventurous and persistent kids who love to explore every inch on the house? My mom once arrived unannounced and I think I never really managed to convince her that the little bottle of liquid the coffee table was a new type of hair removal cream, and the pink little cylinder was used to roll and spread the cream evenly on my calves, and the reason I have to get dressed first before opening the door was because I didn't want my clothes to be stained with the cream. Fortunately, she let the subject stay. I personally keep my toys in a suitcase at the bottom of my dresser, with all the toys covered between layers of towels. The lubes and oils are kept in a make up bag in the same suitcase, with small accessories like clips and kept in a plastic box in the suitcase. For bigger BDSM toys like cuffs and pads, I keep them in a separate traveling bag at the same place. As for my lingerie (um, I think they classify as toys too?) they are all in the second and third drawer of my dresser. How about you? How do you keep your toys? And while on the subject, any body accidentally discovered your hidden toys before?

Personally, I think these orgasmic balls or ben wa balls should come with serious warning labels, detailing WHERE and WHEN not to use them, and what are the possible consequences. I tried being too adventurous with the ben wa balls on more that a few occasions and the orgasms always hit when it was most inappropriate. Eihter i end up embarrassing myself or terrifying the people around me (not that i am complaining). PLEASE DO NOT USE THEM WHEN YOU ARE DRIVING, you might literally die and go to heaven. BTW, if you are REALLY adventurous, cut off the strings and insert them. Half the fun might be trying to get them out. (or, depending on who's point of view, half the fun might be the fact that you are not able to get them out) Have fun with it

sorry to hear that... one of my water proof vibes just passed away yesterday too... the whole thing heats up after i put in th batteries, and my bf said the motor is dead... luckily, it would still work as a dildo, but it just isn't the same. BTW, sorry for being ignorant, what does BOB stands for?

I've only given a few to my really, really close gfs. (never tried giving one to a guy, unless you count condoms) Some of them loved it, some just brushed aside the question when ever I ask about them later. Among those who brushed it aside, some just told me they don't need toys or they think toys are immoral. Well, your lost. Although there was one really, really shy gf who finally opened up and told us she enjoyed it immensly after a few of us kept nagging her for her opinion on the toy...lol Among those who loved it, we sometime share our thoughts and experience with it, and they gave me other toys as gifts in return. It's a great way to learn about toys that others have tried, and sometimes even learn new ways to use existing toys lol... and when the subject is opened... (I think you girls will agree) most guys would probably turn white knowing what we talk about and what are the things inside the house that we use to keep ourselves happy lol

Well... the one that made me go "LOL" was a blowup doll of a sheep, complete with white fur and black bikini. The one that made me go "WTF" was those fucking machines the first time I saw them... although now, it's doesn't seen so scary anymore to me lol And the one that made me go "OMG - I have to have it!" was the Jack Hammer Johnson that my bf showed me on the net... now that looks REALLY fun playing together lol Another one that made me go "OMG - I have to have it!" was a small rocking-chair like contraption that is opened in the middle for a dildo... can't remember where I saw it though..

If you are talking about the one that I think you are talking about... and if my bf gets me one... I can't decide whether I will be so scared of it that I will stay 3 meters away from it, or I'll be happily and willingly be splint apart while trying to take it on... Anyway, thanks for elise's insight... that explains about the cucumber last time we tried it...

Thank you for all your replies, especially mikalya for asking your gyne. (yes i'm too embarressed to ask mine) I think we'll try the bullet as suggested by nevertoold, and he already can't stop talking about the idea of holding on to the controler the whole trip, lol. he'd even suggested that i wear a blindfold so that i won't know when he changes the speed. I don't think i have a high treshhold for pleasure (please god, any thing but that) but i would love to have kept cumming the whole trip. as mikalya's gyne pointed out, i don't know whetehr having a full length vibe inside me will hurt, but i'm just worried. It should be safe, it shouldn't be harmful, but i just can't convince myself of it. So i guess we better start with something small and not so powerfull lol. and thanks whiskeywomen, i'll defineately keep in mind that it might get sore... it will be a shame to waste all those time in the hotel with a sore between the legs. Thank you again for all your advices. Joanne PS.

Now please don't misunderstand the topic - I'm not asking is it harmful to use sex toys in the long term - I enjoy playing with sex toys and have enjoyed them for more than 10 years - so I'm not worried about this issue. What I'm trying to discuss is the continuous use of sex toys for a few hours. Please let me elaborate: My bf and I both enjoy short trips on weekends and holidays. Most of the time we drive to our destinations, which require anything from 3-8 hours or more. Sometime ago my bf suggested that I keep a vibrator inside me for the whole trip (from leaving the house till we check in). Personally, I'm excited about the idea, but I'm worried about keeping a vibrator churning and twisting inside me for hours. (lets assume the battery life is not an issue here lol) Now, I've enjoyed playing with my toys for whole nights, but the toys are exchanged or remove so there are 'breathing space' in between. I've also enjoyed some light bondage and have had vibrators kept inside me for up to 1 hour plus while being tied up... but I'm sure you can understand the bed or the chair is VERY still compared to a car which is speeding down a sometimes bumpy road. So... to sum it all up, (sorry I tend to type (and talk) too much) is it safe to let a vibrator continuously operate inside a vagina for 5-8 hours? or even more? (regardless of whether it's moving or stationary location) Any advice? Any idea what are the side effects? Anyone ever tried it? Also, anyone tried tying up someone and kept the vibe inside her for the whole night? Please relate your experiences here, because I'm (so is my bf) really hopping to give the vibes a long test drive down the highway. (quoting my bf) Thanks in advance. PS... um, since we're on this issue... what about keeping the toy in the anus for 5 hours or more... anyone... tried it before?