Hello: I hope i can get some help with this problem.We have been married 7 1/2 years.I'll give some history on these years.About 3 years ago i made some mistakes ie:personal hygene,not getting up for work(i have my own business) i basicly let myself run down.Everything came to a head about 8 weeks ago and she told me she was thinking of leaving me.She has said she has alot of fantasy's and also 3 somes.Most of her fantasy's were being played out on the internet.i realized finally that i have screwed up and proceded to correct my faults.Since then i have done everthing to crrect the problems.Last Nov. she took a vaction to Las Vegas.When she came back things seemed to be a little better.On New Years eve I planed a romantic evening,dinner dancing and i got us a room for the night.I had candles everywhere in the room,food and beverages.She told me that night she went out to dinner and a show inVegas with a older gentelman she met out there.I didn't presure her for details since latley if i do she gets mad.Since coming back she has been on the internet non-stop.This morning i used her computer and found out she had a affair with a guy off the internet who met her i Vegas (so much for the first story)When i confronted her she said yes and that she didn't feel bad about it because i had made the mistakes in the past and she say's it will take time to prove to her that i have changed for the better.She Say's she wants to be here otherwise she would have left.After a long conversation we agreed to take it 1 day at a time.A side note i've been reading alot on here and have tried to use the information to help our sex life.After our talk she went back to the computer and stated talking to the other guy for hours.Alot of it was not sexual because they play a internet game on-line but there was some sexual talk.I love her alot and don't want to lose her but it seems like i am going to live with the fact if she feels the need to out she will.She say's it is only sexual and that's it.But what i read it seems to be more then that.Sorry for such a long post i just don't know what to do.PS she has a girlfriend and her s/o who are into swinging and she has alot of intrest in that.Any and All replys will be appreciated.