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Arbue, I did want to add something to this discussion. I actually had a sex education class once, where the teacher said that the hair is definitely there for a reason. First it acts to pull sweat away from the skin into the hair, which is cooler for the person. The second reason I have actually experienced myself firsthand. It keeps each person from sticking to each other. In other words, it acts like a slide between the 2 bodies. I went out with a hairless person a long time ago and we kept sticking to each other. It wasn't even summer - our chests even created a suction with noise when we pulled apart . My next boyfriend had a lot of chest and pubic hair and boy was it more comfortable. Softer, no sticking and a nice sliding motion when our bodies moved over each other. For this reason, I like body hair - pubic and all, but a nice trim is good and back hair is "out". My ex actually liked the hair on my private area more than shaved, cause he said if we didn't have time to shave, it felt too rough on his tongue and would irritate it - it was too much trouble and time consuming to shave before sex all the time, so I went back to a natural state. He was absolutely fine with it and I was too. Of course now I'm dealing with the back hair issue on men - that's another story!! Hope this helps.

Hi all, Well, I met a new man. Strangely enough, he also has a lot of body hair. Maybe even more than the last one. I didn't know at first, cause he was wearing a sweater. I do now, as he wore a tank top. I haven't seen him nude yet, and feel like I want to ask him if he has back hair, etc. before I get to know him more and run into a problem with him. But, I think it may be too rude to bring it up. I've only gone out with him a few times. But, I don't want to feel like I have to hide my thoughts if I end up in bed with him, before saying something, for concern of him being offended - I'm assuming he would be. So, what's the concensus. Should I say something before I get more involved with him or wait till I get to know him more - maybe even after seeing him nude and getting more intimate. I just don't want to waste my time, but don't want him to think I'm being too personal, too soon.

Thanks for such a detailed answer. So far, I have truly enjoyed my time here and am planning to frequent it regularly.

That's good advice. Both partners need to be willing to do this. If one isn't, it won't work. There's a lot that needs to come together for a relationship to work out well. Should be interesting!!

Thanks, that's a good idea!

I didn't say anything while having sex, cause I was wanting to see what he was really like. Well, I found out. I was quite disappointed. You're right. There are better!! And I've had better, so I know. I have just found it hard to find someone I'm compatible with mentality et al and also physically. This is now 2 people in the last 3 month that I liked mentality - had lots in common, but lacked in the physcial (chemistry)dept. Before that I was in a relationship for 3 1/2 yrs. with someone I was totally taken with in the physical dept, but we were total opposites out of bed, so finally ended it over too many conflicts. Before that a divorce from an 18 yr marriage, which we were compatible in both areas, but other issues. This is all very strange. Kind of surreal at times!!

Thanks for the info. Do you know of any other quiet models that are powerful, whether it be a clit or vibrator type? Nice to have a selection.

Thanks for your answer. Do you know of any other high quality sex forums (similar to this) that may be more discreet (No sex toys or sexy pictures on the main page)? I have young teenagers, so I have to really watch what shows on the screen. To get to the forum you have to go to the home page first, which shows sex toys. Once I'm in the forum, it's fine. It's the pictures I'm concerned about.

I tried searching for the Huster Rock-It and nothing came up? Is it offered through this company? Maybe under another name. What category is it under? Thanks...

Hi As you probably know, I am new here. I have noticed that you seem to be in charge of most of the information on this site. Howard, also. Maybe others, I'm not sure. Are both of you connected to the Too Timid products? Is this your business? Just curious.

HI Well, I'm no longer with the hairy man. To make a long story short, he wouldn't agree to any shaving. Alright, fine, but when we had sex, he kept hitting my cervix hard with a new position and it was very uncomfortable (almost painful). I didn't stop him, as he was coming. Afterward, I told him gently that that was a little too much for me, et al. He then became kind of distant; not touching me much. He never called me again, not even to say goodbye. Good riddance!! I've only seen him for a month (thought he was a wonderful person) and only had sex with him a few times, but it was really the touching I liked with him. He had a great touch. I didn't touch him as much, cause of all the hair. I really tried getting past that, though. I know other women who like it. Guess it's a personal perference. Boy, I can say episodes like that can really turn someone off to sex. I feel for someone who experience intercourse situations like this on a regular basis, and possibly wonder what is wrong with them -why others enjoy sex and they don't. Anyway, I guess in my case, a longer penis is not better!! Well, back to masturbating till I meet someone else. Who knows what the next will be like or when!! I never thought at my age, I would be going through stuff like this!!! Dating and sex can be fun, but also really frustrating.

Hi For those of us that have a slimline vibrator (not turned on), could you accomplish the same thing as with the energie kegelcisor? I know it is weighted, but another $50. is a lot right now. How much more effective is the energie? If there isn't much of a difference, maybe the slimline would be fine to use. Any comments from anyone who has tried both?

Hi I just got this, put in the batteries and it won't turn on. For those of you who have this, is there a special way of putting in the batteries that I may not be doing. I AA batteries I'm using are new. Thanks

Hi Has anyone ever tried this? Or the orginal jack rabbit for that matter. It sounded good in the description, but there are no reviews. Is it as good as it says?

Regarding shaving, I have used an epilator for years and love it. It is getting old and isn't pulling the hairs out as well anymore. Can anyone who likes epilators recommend one that pulls the hairs out very close? Some say that epilators are painful, but I find it much more tolerable than waxing and I then don't have to shave for a few weeks. I haven't tried it on my genitals. Has anyone here done that? Any problems with doing it on the genital area? Now that is for me. I really don't like shaving, as the hair grows in too quick and then it is rough. Has anyone tried using an epilator on their man's back, etc? Anything else you may recommend other than shaving the genitals (I am also worried about cuts)? I think waxing and using an epilator would be way to painful for my guy on the genital area. Thanks in advance.