torrentwaters

I'll discuss it with him.

Actually we've had this discussion more than once and he says he's fine with our situation. I honestly think, stress from taking care of our daughter, money problems, and just finding time is our problem. As for our daughter sitting in front of the TV for 30 mins or so it's completely out, she is extremely hyper and I can't even go to powder my nose without her. You're probably right about discipline but since I'm working it's hard to be the disciplinarian in the house if he lets her run wild when I'm at work. It's one of those things where you have to be a united front, and we're really not united. It more like wait till your mother gets home.

Actually we've had this discussion more than once and he says he's fine with our situation. I honestly think, stress from taking care of our daughter, money problems, and just finding time is our problem. As for our daughter sitting in front of the TV for 30 mins or so it's completely out, she is extremely hyper and I can't even go to powder my nose without her. You're probably right about discipline but since I'm working it's hard to be the disciplinarian in the house if he lets her run wild when I'm at work. It's one of those things where you have to be a united front, and we're really not united. It more like wait till your mother gets home.

I know this is an old post but it really spoke to me. First off I have to say that I'm rather envious, but more on that later. In our little family I work and my hubby's a stay at home dad. At my last job I would call home on lunch to just say hi, but at my current one I can't. Well I can when I have my cell phone but we can't really afford cards for it at the moment. We don't even have prospects for a babysitter other than relatives and they live so far away it only happens on rare occasions. As to alone time, we used to make time, by either waiting till the kid went to bed or getting up super early. That wasn't a big deal, because I get up to work on my writing in the mornings. I'm an aspiring writer. Lately though we haven't been doing either. Now as to why I'm envious, my hubby used to do little things for me, but not so much anymore. Actually the best I can hope for is a candy bar when he goes to the store. As to putting on a movie for the kid, no luck there she's three and I really don't feel comfortable leaving her alone since it's never just a few minutes. Although I'm actually hoping if I try to put more spice in our life we'll get back to making more time to be alone. So if any one has any suggestions as to how I can remedy this I'm all ears.

Well to my surprise he brought up the subject last night. Apparently after I talked to him about it he downloaded some porn with toys and decided it wasn't as bad as he thought it was. Go figure. So I showed him some of the things I'm interested in and we're going to buy something after a little more research. Thanks for all your help.

Thanks I'll look around then maybe try talking to him again, when I know what I want.

Thanks for the info. I'm still having trouble with the hubby though. His reply when I broach the subject was, "if you get another penis(he used another word) then I get a girlfriend." When I tried to explain it was for both of us he was like, "how?" He has a limited imagination, unless it’s his idea. If you get my drift. On my other question, I was looking at the dual bullets. What do you think of them?

As of right now we don't have any toys. What would you suggest as a frist time purchase for a couple new to toys?

I want to bring toy play into the bedroom, but when I approached my hubby about it he was kinda put off. Actually he was like why, like he didn't think he was enough. But it's not that I just want to try some different things. How do I coax him into it?