cdwaldorf

My husband was the one who actually brought it up to me. At first I was very embaressed b/c only bad girls use sex toys and I wanted my husband to have respect for me. My husband started becoming better improved in the bedroom and I actually had my first O. We have mastered intercourse and wanted to spice up our time together so I decided it was time to introduce a toy. He was so excited. There is no turning back:) In fact I want my husband to look at me as a bad girl:)

Thanks Tyger and Mikayla. I do find that I stress about having an orgasm sooner and I can see how if affects me. My husband loves to take his time so I need to be more into it. I am not on any medication but I did just have a baby (#3) 8wks ago. I am just starting to gain confidence in my ability to be a sexual woman. I have read a lot of your sex toy posts and I have already gained a lot of info. Especially the deep throat article. My husband is still thanking you for that one:) I guess I just want to have multiple orgasms with foreplay and I stress when I don't b/c is seems to come easy for others.

I have been lurking on this board for about a couple of months. I have just started experimenting with toys to help enhance our sexual play and I have been extremely dissappointed in the results. My husband has been hinting to get a toy for him to use on me to help with more external stimulation during our time together. I have always taken a long time when it I am stimulated orally and we thought a toy would help me reach an orgasm a lot faster. I have a couple of bullets and a pocket rocket and it takes just as long to reach an orgasm and it kills the passion. My husband is determined to get an orgasm so he will go the 15-20 minutes to recieve results but then the mood is shot and we have to build back up. I have no problem with my g-spot. I can get multiple orgasm's with his fingers so I have ordered the Ultimate Thrusting Rabbit but it is on back order (I can't wait). I don't feel like you can use a toy incorrectly but I don't understand why it still takes so long. I want our sexual play to be hot and heavy and not have a cold spot while I take 20 minutes to orgasm. Please help?