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  1. Everytime I see him preach it takes everything in my power to keep my mind on his message. I would die if anyone knew what was going through my mind. He is hot, hot, hot. Oh I am going to burn
  2. How bad is this my pastor at church. If I had no moral values or commitment to my husband then I would go after this man (oh and if he wasn't married:). I think its because it is forbbidden fruit.
  3. I have to admit the new Target prescription bottles are awesome!!!
  4. On my brother's bed (not very proud of that one) My parents living room floor while they were sleeping Shower in my parents house while they were in the living room Car in front of my bf house City park
  5. Instead of getting out of a relationship that was dead I ended it by cheating. I was 17 and very stupid.
  6. I do like biting. I like it almost to the point of pain on my back, neck and inner thighs. I do not like biting on any of my sensitive parts like my labia or my nipples. I do love to bite.
  7. Be confident in who you are. Let's be real (especially the ladies) there are things that we would change about ourselves that others would die to have. An example I am short (5'2 on a good day) and I would love to be around 5'7 and have long sexy legs. Women who are tall seem to have this confidence about them that I would love to have when I enter a room. However, I embrace the fact that I am short. That is my genetic make up and there is nothing I can do about it. Be the women that God intended for you to be: Strong, Beautiful, Confident, and Tall.
  8. What you did took a lot of courage on your part. Do not feel bad b/c your first reaction wasn't kicking him to the curb. I can imagine you had strong feelings for him b/c you were actually considering having this experience. In the end you made the right decision and that is all that matters. I am so glad that you have a friend that voices her concern for your safety. Cherish that b/c that kind of friendship can be far and few between.
  9. I have to agree with Howard. I am wondering what would be the difference in having a threesome before you are married or after you are married. You have committed yourself to your bf. I would just be concerned about why he wants you to have this experience. The question you need to ask is have you ever wanted this experience? Is this the lifestyle that you want to lead? I wouldn't be suprised if you bf starts asking you to have threesomes even after marriage. Do not do it unless you know that you are ready. I also have to agree that doing anything with a co-worker is a very bad idea and can lead into a lot of trouble.
  10. I love this paragraph. "The greatest love a woman will ever have is her child – it is inherent to her – natural. However, the greatest gift she can give to that child is a happy marriage and good example of love. This can NOT happen if there is bad sex….PERIOD! When a couple is not having sex or is having unfulfilling sex – the touching stops. The kissing stops. The phone calls during the day stop. Saying “I love you” is rare at best. Not having sex causes a rift in life – and shows the child that his parents are not emotionally connected." I totally agree with this statement. Well done article.
  11. 1. Would you be in control? Not at first. 2. Would you pull my hair? Yes, but not hard:) 3. Would you whisper in my ear? sometimes 4. Would you talk dirty to me? Yes (but only in the moment) 5. Would you kiss me with a little tongue or a lot of tongue? Good mixture of the two 6. Would you say my name? OOOh Howard:) 7. Would you go down on me? It would be my pleasure 8. Would you let me give you a hickie? No 9. How many rounds would we go? I am good for 3 10. What would you wanna do afterwards? I love to cuddle 11. Would you take off all ur clothes then take mine off slowly? Sorry men first 12. Would you lick and bite me all over? I might nibble 13. Would you like 2 play or get straight to the point? I love to play 14. Would you want me to take my time? why rush 15. Would u fall asleep with me when we were done? Probably not 16. fast or slow? slow and steady 17. Where would u wanna "do it" at? bedroom 18 Would u be loud or quiet? I am extremely vocal 19. Would you mind if i licked you? On my neck 20. Would you do it 2day? Yes 21. Would you do it 2morrow? Yes 22. Are you going to re-post these so I can answer them for you? This has been fun
  12. When I read your post I thought you had recently had a baby. I would talk with your OB/GYN and have him/her look at the area. If it still not healed then I would refrain from any anal play.
  13. With my first baby I had a fourth degree tear. I tore right up to my sphincter and for a couple of months it was uncomfortable to even go to the bathroom. It has been four years later (and 2 vaginal births later) and it has healed just fine. I would hold off on any anal play for a while but rest assure you will be able to have anal sex. It was about 6 months before I would even let me husband caress my butt. I do have scar tissue on my perineum that can give me some problems (mostly when it stretches) but it is not painful. A good indication when to start having anal sex is when you don't have any pain during a bowl movement. About 4 months everything felt normal but I waited an additional 2 months to be on the safe side.
  14. I agree with Thurasis and Howard. You have to work out whatever problem you have with your husband or end it before persuing anyone. I would be hesistant to end my marraige b/c of a infatuation with your boss. Plus you never even mention if the boss even interested in you on a more deeper level. I would then ask myslef what kind of person would make advances towards a married women. That would be a big warning flag for me. One thing I will promise you is that the grass is not greener on the other side and this will have a devastating effect on your marriage and your job. It just really doesn't sound worth it to me. Do not think with your emotions.
  15. I use to get intense anal cramping when I could feel my orgasm build up. It usually happend right after an amazing orgasm and I would cramp for a few minutes. It was quite painful. I noticed that right before my orgasms I would tense up (I guess I was trying to hold it off). I would force myself to relax and fall into the orgasm and this has helped. It has been a long time since I have had any anal cramping. Your wife's situtation is a little different. I wonder if she is thinking about the pleasure she receives in anal sex and her body just responds. I wouldn't recommend that you stop but you may want to slow down a little bit.
  16. I found this site through a parenting board and I told my husband when I received the free toy. He was more than excited and it doesn't bother him (thanks to Mikayla's articles) that I am here.
  17. I will swallow.My husband doesn't mind kissing me after a phenomenal blow job.
  18. I guess I am in the minority but I do not like it. I am not small chested (and I am not huge either) but I just don't get anything from it. My husband is not a fan either.
  19. There is a lot of information to decifer but the main issue is that she is insecure in herself. When someone says that you deserve better or that she doesn't want you to look at her pussy b/c it is private means that she doesn't have any self worth. You have to ask yourself if everything stays the same in your relationship will you be happy? She is trying to find herself and being in a relationship may not help her. You are damned if you do and damned if you don't. I really think both of you are feeding off of the negativity in this relationship. You want to make her happy and be her Savior. She just wants to sulk and find someone who agrees with everything that she believes . She is already sabatoging the relatioship b/c she believes that she is worthless. This is my opinion but the best thing to do is to not take this relationship any further. I have been through exactly what she is feeling and I know from experience and this relationship will never work. There is a lot of maturing and maybe counseling that she will have to go through. This is not what you want to hear but this has been my experience.
  20. I do not like porn and I will never watch it. I totally agree with everything that you are feeling and I do not feel that it is wrong for you not to want those images in your head. When I have sex with my husband I don't want to think about the "manufactured sex". I want to think about my husband. Stop feeling guilty.
  21. I love when my husband uses the word fuck. It is not a word that we will say in normal everyday conversation but during our lovemaking it just sends a shiver down my spine.
  22. GET OUT, GET OUT, GET OUT. I sent you a personal message about what my dear friend with through. She stayed with a man for 10 years and never once did they have penetrating sex with her. She felt worthless and unattractive. Waiting is fine but the fact that you have been together for 17 months sleeping in the same bed and he isn't all over you is a big warning sign. I am sorry but there is no normal heterosexual male that can lay next to a woman for 17 months and not want to have sex. GET OUT before your start believing that it is you. I promise you that he is the one with the problem and not you.
  23. My SIL is dealing with her husband being bi-polar and the medication takes away his sex drive. The best thing to do is speak to his therapist/Dr. I would ask about Viagra and if it is safe to take with his other medications. I would keep his Dr informed and get his okay to try different things. First and foremost you husband has to be willing to find an answer. That is the problem my SIL is dealing with b/c her husband doesn't care to have anything done about it. He is really embarrassed and refuses to talk about it.
  24. The right side of my neck. I will drop my panties when he starts there. My hubby loves when I kiss and lick all over his ears. He also likes for my to bite his nipples.
  25. I have been with a smaller size and I have to tell you that I did not enjoy it at all. The penis has to be able to reach my G-spot and that is about 6 inches. Anything less than that I don't feel anything.
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