Kathey

Wow, I am so glad that I am not the only one with this issue. I am not actually sure if I have ever actually had an orgasm. I am pretty sure that I have come close both with a man as well as on my own, but I always sort of feel like I have left myself hanging and I have no idea what exactly I am supposed to feel. I have read the education articles and tried all of the tips and advice and I think I get really close, but I always fell like I never quite get released for lack of a better way to put it. I have been using a dual action toy that is a lot of fun and I get to the point where my entire body is shaking and convulsing, but I can't quite seem to get over the edge or I am just missing something and that is what the orgasm is and I just have some fantasy about what it is supposed to be. What the heck am I actually supposed to be feeling and how do I know if I have actually orgasmed??? Since I am not in a relationship and have no prospects on the horizon, I am on my own here so any advice is greatly appreciated.