sweetpetite

I'm not into BDSM or SM either. I once went out with a girl (teacher), who liked to have clothes pins put on her pussy lips and have them yanked abit, i thought she was insanse, but whatever floats her boat, so i lightly yanked'em, but felt like i was hurting her. Needless to say we were only together for two months.

Hi: I have a question/comment for all here. I am 35, female, lesbian/maybe bi-sexual, and been partnered for over 2 1/2 years, i cannot seem to get off with my partner, no matter what we try, or how long we try. I get aroused, wet, excited, etc. but can't finish. She can just fine and im happy for her, but i want some too. (lol) I think there is something wrong with my body, also neither my partner nor i can seem to find my g-spot. I like dildo, fingers, oral, anal, and we have tried these all. What is a surefire technique or toy to get me off with my partner?

i read the article and didn't know about the "opening of the vaginal lips, to get better clit stimuli", i'll have my partner try it on me, and see if this helps or makes things better for me. i sent the article via an email link to my partner, so we can try some of the stuff. good article, thanxs!