Rayya

ok... so here's the story in short... we started at it, using a Trogan Her Pleasure condom... and about ten minutes later, he went numb! Not that I dont mind him lasting longer, but those condoms arent suppose to do that, right? They dont that that kind of lube on them, I checked the website. We've used them before and thats never happened... I went down on him a few hours before and he finished, but it just struck me as weird... anyone have an answer????? Thanks

I was finally able to take it in the ass and LIKE IT! (For those of you who dont know, thats a BIG thing for me..... I'm proud of myself... hehe)

thanks a lot for your advice, Howard... its much appreciated

talking dirty isnt as hard as some people think.... I was really, really shy about the whole subject until I just said fuck it one day and threw caution to the wind.... you could tell her how good she feels when you're inside her, how wet she is, how she's going to make you explode when you cum, ask her if she likes your cock inside her, if she likes it when you fuck her hard... use your imagination, man!

Alright... here's the story: My boyfriend is REALLY into the whole anal sex thing... and I'm pretty curious about it as well and think I'll enjoy it just as much as him... I mean, he's played with my ass before, put a few fingers in, etc.... but whenever we try to actually anal sex, it hurts like hell! Last time, I tried to get myself ready with one of my toys... it was just as big as my boyfriend length wise, and a little smaller in thickness... I used a lot of lube and it went in smoothly... I kinda worked it around for a little bit, getting used to the feel (letting him watch, of course ) until I felt comfortable enough to let him replace the toy.... he lubed himself up and slowly tried entering me, but I couldn't take it after he got the head of his erection inside me, it hurt too much! He's a very understanding guy and told me that it's something that needs to be taken slowly, but I'm starting to get frusterated with myself! I'm completely relaxed when we try it and we're both laying on our sides so my muscles aren't tightened or anything... Does anyone have any advice as to what to do? Lubes? Positions? Techniques that would make it easier? I'd love to be able to give him a good anal fuck for our one year anniversary....

I have! In the movie theater and in the mall! hehe When I first started seeing my current boyfriend, I had to do it in secret because the parents were against it. (Over protective and extreamely religious.... my guy is Pagan and has long hair, piercings and tattoos.... ) So we found a secluded place in the mall (theres a whole section of the mall with no stores because the mall in my area SUCKS) and would mess around for hours.... giving each other oral, masterbating each other.... stuff like that.... good times Even now that my parents have accepted the fact that were together, we still go back to that spot every so often to mess around a little.....

Receiving oral has to be my absolute FAVORITE thing! I get really, REALLY vocal when I get into it.... I pull my guys hair, press my hips up against his face, scream, whatever feels good at the time! Luckily, my boyfriend loves it as well.... I LOVE it when he uses his fingers too... I can normally take three, and his has big hands! When I cum, he doesnt stop, he just keeps going until my clit is too sensitive to be touched anymore. I've had multiple orgasms more than once through oral and I've soaked his sheets almost every time!

I know how you feel about the whole "getting caught" thing... my mother was a very VERY strong religious woman and believed that touching yourself in any sexual way was extreamely wrong... but luckily, not all parents think that. Brush handles are always a good idea... hell, when I have nothing else to use, I still use mine! But as mentioned before, don't try inserting it! If you're new to this, take it slow... try using your fingers to massage the upper part of your private place (that's where the clit is and that's normally where it feels the best) As far as getting caught.... just dont be loud, lock your door, or do it when no ones home or when people are sleeping

Amen, sister I love watching my boyfriend jerk off as well..... I love getting his reaction when I start touching myself while watching him, or when I break out one of my toys It had a degree of excitement to things.... its kind of dirty, but in the good way

I was at my boyfriend's house.... feeling really horny... so I decided to start masterbaing while he was on the computer doing a project for one of his classes.... (Yes, I'm a very big tease to him ) I took my brush (since I couldnt find anything else and the handle of it is rounded about about 8 inches long) and slipped it inside after digging my mini vibrator out of my bag (I always bring my toys with me when I go to his house ) He didnt know I was doing it until he heard me moaning. So, he turned around, saw me, and sat there for a few minutes, watching me. Soon, he couldnt take it anymore so he walked over to me and sat down at the foot of his bed, to get a closer look. It wasnt long until we were both masterbating together...... Well, after a little while I felt that I was getting close to orgasm... he and I were completely alone in this house, so I decided to let go and moan (practically scream) when my time came, I had a very intense orgasm with the combination of my toy and the brush ramming into me... but something interesting happened that has never happened to me before.... I came so hard, my muscles tightened around the brush handle, I couldnt remove it until my muscles where completely relaxed.... and when I did pull it out, it was dripping with this liquid that looked just like a man's cum.... So, heres my question..... did I actually ejaculate or is that normal???????

Ever tried a dildo with a suction cup??? You can stick it to a shower wall or floor.... its hands free, but you still have to do the work yourself. The Too Timid store has a lot of them in their dildo section.... http://www.tootimid.com/female/

My boyfriend and I just tried the anal sex thing about three weeks ago.... I, like I'm sure a few other ladies on here, was doing it mostly because I figured it would make my guy happy and he would enjoy himself.... but I was surprised to find that I liked it as well. I admit, it did hurt a little at first, but the lube makes a WORLD of difference, believe me. I cant imagine trying to have anal sex without lube... my ass hurts just thinking about it... lol.

I honestly think most of my strongest orgasms are from oral sex... my boyfriend is quite good at it considering I'm the first girl he's ever went down on... he even goes online to check out tips on how to make me cum faster or how to drag it out longer. Sometimes it gets so intense, I almost scream!

Ooo... being the one in control is fun! I know what you mean about being a little shy... at first, being aggressive was a little tough for me... but once you get used to it, it becomes really, really fun! Try going into a store that sells naughty stuff and taking a look around.... see if anything catches your eye, and if it looks like it would be fun, give it a try! You'll never know what you like until you try it Have fun!

I agree with Janet and Jen.... hunny, if your girlfriend isnt content with what you have, then thats her problem. My boyfriend is about 7 inches, he worries that he's too small but I'm quite content with it. Believe me, being 6 inches is NOTHING to be worrying about

Has anyone ever used Altoids for oral sex?.... Let me tell ya, my boyfriend bought some the other day because he heard they were good for oral, and they really do work! He put one in his mouth while giving me oral and it gave me the most amazing tingling sensation! I felt very warm down there for about 15mintues afterwards.... I really liked it! It worked on him as well.... We used the pepermint ones because I'm sure the cinnomon ones would be TOO strong.... if you like a very strong, warm, tingling sensation between your legs, and think you can stand it, I say give it a shot! You can find Altoids anywhere and their only $2 for a big tin of like... 30! They're my new favorite mints!

I'm an 18-year-old virgin who is scared to DEATH (and seriously paranoid) about getting pregnant... Does anyone know what the strongest condom on the market is? Like... super strong? And what are the chances of getting pregnant with a condom? (I figure I'd ask here because so far, you've all been very helpful and kind in your replies )

I love masterbating for my boyfriend.... I start out with just him watching but more than once he's ended up helping me finish. It's a huge turn on for him and I love getting him all amped up before teasing him with a nice oral session! Masterbating for your partner also helps to show them how you like to be touched.

damn. I thought it was the only one! lol. I dont get anything out of it when I have my vibrator inside of me... I prefer just massaging my clit with it and using a dildo inside...

My boyfriend and I have been together for five months and started doing sexual things about two months ago... we're both virgins and have never touched or have been touched by anyone else before, so its a new experience for both of us each time we try something. My favorite thing to do with my hunny is give him oral. I dont know why but I love it! I enjoy pressing my hips against his and asking him exactly what he wants me to do... and then if he doesnt give me a detailed enough discription, I make him tell me more. Once I get enough info I slowly slide down his body..... I love the sound of him going into detail about what he wants me to do to him. Major turn on for me. Sometimes he apologizes for 'making a mess' after he cums because he thinks that its gross but I dont mind the 'mess' at all.... I've told him that, but I dont think he believes me. (You would think the fact that I clean him off completely afterwards would give him the hint that I like the taste... ) Sometimes I get him so amped up when I'm giving him head or a handjob he clutches the sheets on his bed or grabs the headboard to keep from squirming. This, I absolutely LOVE. When he pants and murmurs words of encouragment to me, it not only turns me on, but it makes my ego shoot sky high. 'Oh... it feels so good' and 'Please dont stop' are just a few of the little whimpers I hear. I think I surprise him sometimes because it often takes him a little longer than usual to cum (espeically if he knows we're not completely alone, like if his parents are downstairs or is little brother is scampering about because he gets so nervous even if the door is locked) and no matter how long it takes, I'll do it until he's satisfied completely. I think I'm more upset than he is when we get interupted More than once, after giving him oral, his brother has came up stairs or into his room before my boyfriend can give me oral, but I honestly dont mind not getting anything in return.... I think giving him an orgasm and hearing him pant and moan my name is just as good sometimes

I love it when my boyfriend is breathing really heavy and starts talking (or trying to ) between gasps of pleasure. I love the sound of his voice in the first place, but when hes panting and telling me how much of a tease I am and how much he wants to be inside of me.... it makes me feel good... in more than one way it doesnt have to be really dirty... personally, I hate words such as 'pussy', 'cock', and things like that... I'm not a prude, it just makes me feel like I'm having a one night stand or something TOO dirty...

Is it possible to have your period and still be pregnant?