I have always known that I am interested in men and women. I have also had sexual encourters with women before I started dating Shane (my boyfriend). Shane and I talked alot about having a threesome (me, him and another woman) and sometimes we would talk about it when we were having sex. Once I started school I started talking to this girl, and we became good friends. She was in a relationship, but it was very rocky. One night her and her boyfriend got into a huge fight and she broke up with him. She stayed over at my place that night. We started drinking a little bit, and then me and her went for a walk alone. We had talked in the past before about having a threesome with my boyfriend, so when we went for a walk the topic obviously came up again. We laid out some ground rules and made sure that we both wanted to do this. Then we went back home. Since that night she has come over 2 other times. Because her and her boyfriend have been going on and off for a while, she decided that it would probably be better off if she didnt do anything with my boyfriend, but she still wanted to be with me. She didnt have a problem with Shane watching us. Every once in a while she comes over for a "booty call" or I call her when I want a "booty call." Getting involved in a threesome with someone that you love and care about isn't always the smartest thing to do. There has to be an understanding between the 3 of you, and everyone has to feel complelty free to stop at anytime without question. Shane and I have this trust in eachother, I know that its just the fantasy of being with 2 women at once. You have to have alot of trust in the other woman as well. Knowing that she is purely into this for a sexual purpose. Hope this helps. Feel free to ask me anymore questions if you would like!!
