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  1. How do you get to become a product reviewer for tootimid.com?
  2. How do you get to become a product reviewer for tootimid.com?
  3. I see all of these cock rings. They look bulky. They look painfully constricting. Do they keep the man from entering fully? I even read one toy review that said the vibrating one had a bullet that got hot and burned. The ones with clit and anal prings...I assume those only work on the in thrusts..??? Please give some insight. What is a good one for my boyfriend, that has never worn one to not freak him out toooooo much...
  4. Oh yeah...a litle raking the nails along his thigh, or into his butt cheeks makes him realize you are completely consumed and are truly enjoying what you are doing. By the time I am done with him, I am so ready for him....I HATE that I made him cum and now have to wait to be ready again. though...I have been known to get him real close, then stop...look at him...climb on top...slowly lower onto him and ride him very hard till he comes, and he comes VERY HARD AND STRONG that way. However, climbing on fast and not slow works too...it ALL WORKS!!! Enjoy!!! I remember the first time I did that, he opened his eyes and said, "why'd you stop? what are you...oh...OH!!! OH GOD......" and the rest was history!
  5. Hi. I was like you once. However, I was introduced to oral sex as a drunken teenager. I don't even remember what I did. Just have vague flashes of being on my knees...nice, right? Anyway, I never really liked it, cause I thought I didn't know how to do it. I would do it here and there, and then just phase it out. My ex-husband, who was with almost 10 years may have gotten 4 or 5 in that time. I just didn't want to, and it wasn't a good marriage, so I wasn't willing to try to overcome it for him. They guy I am in a relationship with now is so great. He had not had much experience receiving this, as he is only 22, and the two girls he dated? One did it for him once, and one did it twice. One night, I said, would you go in the bathroom and wash up a little and I'm going to go to the kitchen. When I get back, be back here and have the boxers off. He sat there for a sec looking a little dumbfounded. I don't know what possessed me to want to try this. Well, I returned and off I went...and he LOVED it. I had always been told I did it well, but I never thought so. However, I do lack a gag-reflex and this helps. Later he said, so now I know what the big deal is. It's never felt like that before! Now, I find myself WANTING to do it to him all the time. 4, 5 times a day. He never tires of it. What guy does? I've tried a million different ways to do it, and he loves them all. I don't recall actually LOOKING at him, because he's always laying down with his eyes closed and a content grin... But, when I have changed from one spot to another, maybe my neck was getting uncomfy or something? I have looked at him and he looks like a man at peace. I have even stopped and said, baby, which is the most sensitive part??? And he said, "Um...right here, and over here." I asked him later why he took a second to think about it. He said no one ever asked or cared. They just bobbed up and down and sucked way too hard. I said, well, I want to make sure I make you feel as good as possible. They notice when you are interested in making them feel good. Pay attention to their penis also. Don't just turn out all the lights and suck it and go gargle. No man wants that. I like to look at it, stroke it a little...(also helpful in making sure there are no little hairs llose...LOL) Give some very gentle kisses to the head and area right around the head...not PECKS like you kiss your grandma. Kisses with just a little tongue...it teases it and makes them CRAVE the rest of your mouth...and THEN go to it. You don't have to only suck with it IN your mouth. You can take it out and suck, kiss, lick the sides, back, front, top...and don't forget the balls. LOL... good little finisher here. At least my guys likes it...LOVES IT. When you are done, if you DO swallow or allow him to come in your mouth...which I do the whole deal! At the end, after it's out of your mouth, stay there a sec. look at it and I'll say, "mmmm, I missed a drop, and I'll suck or lick any last drops that may remain..." Makes him crazy that I enjoy him and his taste so much that I don't want to miss a drop. And then, make him anticipate it the next time. I'll send mine an IM at his office saying, "I can close my eyes right now and taste you in my mouth. I sooo wish you were here" He won't be late coming home from work that night... I dunno. That's just a whole bunch of my opinions. Oh, and the finger/anus...it works. Right guys? They helped me out with that one.
  6. He's still hesitant about it. If I just kind of ease the idea upon him, I think he'll be more likely to try it than if I come at him with a dedicated toy. He said "next time" so he's not OPPOSED to it as much as confused by the feeling I think. You guys give good advice. Nice to hear from men. Thank you all!
  7. WOW! Thank you sooo much for such a fast and THOROUGH reply. I was married for 10 years and didn't get to experiment with much during that time, and as I said, he's even more limited in his. I do know considerably more than him, but this topic is new to both of us. Thank you VERY much.
  8. This is long, but please forgive me. I want to be detailed to get the best answers in response. Please don't laugh. I'm new here and not using to typing such detailed information. I'm usually a reader... :-/ But, I have a question and I would like opinions please. From men also.... I read in so many places about instering a finger in a man's anus during oral. Okay, well...I decided to try it this weekend. The first time I tried it, during oral I had one hand on his balls and decided to kind of just move a little lower, and just get REALLY close, not not really GO FOR IT, to gauge his response. I'm 33, and in a relationship with a 22-year-old who has very limited experience, not that I have so much myself, but I knew he'd never don't anything like that either. So, he didn't try to stop me, and he seemed to cum faster than normal. I wasn't sure if I was imaginging it though. His only comment really, was, "I was wondering how much closer you were going to get." So, that evening, I decided to try it again, but I didn't mention it, because I thought he would say not to. So, during oral, I kind of gently moved his leg a little to the side for access, and to see if he said, "WHOA!" He didn't stop me, so I moved his leg a little more and very slowly barely placed my finger to the opening. I wasn't brave enough to go for full insertion. He definitely had a reaction. He let out a few moans, and while he normally strokes my hair, which is long, there were a few noticable tugs...not YANKS, just tugs, and he came VERY quickly. I now considered this a confirmed reaction. So, after completion I waited a minute and then asked him, "You okay?" (He was quiet.) His answer was:" I am soooo confused." Now, I was not surprised by this. He's young, fairly shy, not real outgoing in the bedroom, but I think that's just because he's only had sex with his high school girlfriend, and the they didn't experiment with much. He is getting a bit better about the shyness in the bedroom, but I still sometimes have to say, "You know, we can try different positions. I'm VERY flexible" things like that. I also read that many many are a little freaked out by the fact that they enjoy the sensation. They think it makes them less of a man, or whatever. I asked him if I hurt him, and he said, no, but his pride and ego were a little in shock right now. I told him, "look, if you really didn't like it, I won't do it again, but from your reactions, you liked it." He said he wouldn't go so far as to say he liked it and that the jury was still out. I said, well, just don't close your mind to something just because it's different. There are nerve endings there, and it's as simple as that. I said, okay, tell me this, did it feel good? He kind of sheepishly responded in a lowered voice, "Yeah, it did." So, today I finally brought the subject up again and said, about that...it felt good to you, even if you don't want to admit it. I told him, look, I know you're a man, andyou think you aren't supposed to like that sort of thing, but it's okay. A lot of people do it. I said, well, would you want me to do it again, or should I say would you let me? (I thought maybe he would want it, but not want to admit it and therefore ALLOW it and just not ask for it. does that make sense? I hope it did...that was a little jumbly) So, he said, "Just, next time...make sure you wash your hand afterwards." I said, "baby, when I got up and went in the bathroom, that's what I did, you just didn't notice becauase your mind was still fuzzy." OKAY!!!!!! So, now that I finished my long narrative, if you have any comments...please give them. But, I have a few questions. 1. Is his reaction normal? The confusion, not sure if he liked it, wanted it again, whatever.... 2. IF I do this again, I would likely want to take baby steps for him. How far should I go?? Fingertip? The length of the nail bed? To the first bend in the finger? Do I just judge and see what he reacts to? I'm new to this also... 3. I have nails, not long, but should I use a finger condom? Or will this feel differently? 4. Lots of lube, little? (The firs two times, there was no ACTUAL insertion, so there was no lube and it was kind of unplanned.)
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