Jim's Girl

I can totally relate. My wonderful fiance is 2000 miles away, and not one second goes by that I don't wish he were here or I was there. I miss him so much. We talk every day on the phone, and through emails. I'm going to see him soon, and the anticipation and excitement grows every day. I can't wait to hold him again. If all I got to do was just hold his hand, or just be in the same room with him, I'd be happy.

My man absolutely LOVES to titty fuck, and I love to let him. I feel soooo sexy when we do...I love taking him into my mouth on his upthrust, and teasing him with my tongue. I get hot just thinking about it! I love him coming on my tits and my lips, then feeding it to me so I can suck it off his fingers...RAWR!!!

I am SOOOO lucky. My man is a true cowboy, a former bull rider. One of my favorite fantasies about him is him wearing his chaps...GOD he's HOT! I stick to the chair just thinking about him. He's hot with the chaps, or in blue jeans and a tshirt. One of his favorite costumes for me to wear is a nurse's outfit, with a short frilly skirt that he can flip up, so he can have me from behind.

I was a part of a threesome for about for years. I was invited into a married couple's relationship as a co-wife by the female, after she and her husband had discussed it. They both knew I'd never been with another woman, and this was my first threesome. They were my really good friends at the time. Our relationship lasted about four years. The three of us did everything together, just like a married couple, plus one. We all loved each other very much (supposedly), and life was good. The problems arose because the other female refused to talk openly about how she felt. She was bi-polar, I found out later. She'd become angry over our relationship, and felt threatened because I could cook and she couldn't, because I kept a clean house and she didn't...just anything. There were no problems at the beginning of our relationship, then she started doing and saying some pretty horrible things. It left me and the male wondering WTF was going on, because we'd all been so happy. At the end of the relationship, it came out that in her teens she'd been a cocaine addict (she went into rehab a few months before the end), and had slept with most of the men in her town. At the end, she had become hooked on IV pain medications; the male was a disabled vet, and she was stealing his medications and shooting up. She almost literally killed him by substituting sterile water for his pain medications. She'd do and/or say horrible things to both of us, then not remember it the next day. I couldn't deal with her craziness anymore, so I bailed. She and her husband split up after he gave her every chance in the world, and he and I gave a go at a relationship, but we had a huge argument and he couldn't deal with *his* Achilles heel. (That's another thread, though.) She has called me and apologized for "all the mean things I did to you", and said she wanted to have a relationship with just me, but I am not gay, and I have no interest in allowing her to become that close to me again. She had accused me at one point right before the end of "breaking up my marriage", but said during the phone call that she knew it was her drug abuse and the hateful things she'd done to both of us that did it. We (the male and I) did everything we could to keep the threesome together, but because the female either couldn't or wouldn't (or both) communicate effectively, and because she couldn't deal with it all, I guess, it fell apart. If you're in ANY relationship, it takes 100% commitment from everyone involved, but perhaps it takes even more from participants in an unusual relationship such as ours was. Two of us were willing, and one wasn't. There was no chance. If you have concerns or questions, you have to TALK about it. From your post, I can tell that you and your boyfriend didn't invite this woman into your lives for a long term relationship; you wanted some fun and adventure and something different. ALL THAT IS FINE!! There is not one thing wrong with that. But you have to believe in each other and in the relationship itself from the start, or you WILL have problems. Newbie is right; sex is one thing, but true intimacy and feelings and love between a man and a woman is a different animal. Talk to him. He probably has just as many questions as you do. Like Howard says, it should be a learning experience for you both, and it has every potential to draw the two of you closer.

Hi all! I lurked just a few minutes on this forum before joining. The advice, warmth and cameraderie I've seen here in just a few posts is amazing, and I appreciate the opportunity to discuss sex in a healthy, free manner. My fiance--the most wonderful man on earth--and I are in a long distance relationship. I've had relationships in the past and have been married before, but I've never been in love with my best friend, and it has made all the difference in my life. We talk to each other about everything, and I look forward to tips and advice on how to please him more in bed. Thanks for the opportunity!