I've made a few posts on here already. I'm 25, married and the mother of a beautiful 11-month-old girl. My husband is in the military and is headed to Iraq for his first time. I'm living with my inlaws in Hawaii while he is gone. Before being a stay at home mom I was a journalist and a photographer. However, I love being a mom and hope to be able to stay home with my children until they are school aged. I'm shy when it comes to talking about feelings, fantasies, sex, etc. But at the same time I'm adventurous and know what I like. I hope by participating in this forum I can learn to speak up more in the bedroom. And while my husband is away maybe I can learn to open up on the phone with him to help ease the pain of him being so far away. I read the article on phone sex, but I don't think I'm quite ready for that (although I know my husband would love it).