spammik1

Hey, I am in my middle 50's and have found that my sex drive has exploded in the last year. Of course my husband has always had a very high sex drive, so I am actually closer to his for the first time ever. It is a shame that it took so long to kick in LOL

I have gone without panties to shock/surprise my husband at times, I wear thongs occasionally. I wear bikini panties to bed. Sorry my butt gets cold, HA, and if that happens I am uncomfortable and don't sleep well.

Hey, My husband has used the sex candles on me as well as the massage oil candle that you can rub in right away or let it harden. I love both. He has a lower threshold for pain so neither seem to work for him. But that is fine. I get all the benefit. It is very erotic to have the wax applied any where on my body. I would be very careful to try regular candles they are way too hot for me. But everyone has a different threshold. From what I have seen the sex candles and parafin candles have a lower melting threshold. Good luck.