shygirl13

Thank you all for the great advice. It is great to get some positive suggestions. I will keep you posted on the situation. If anyone has any other suggestions please let me know. Have a great one!

Okay Ya'll, I know I have not been on the forums for long but I need some help. I will try and make this as short as possible. I have been with my husband a total of 5 years. We have been married for 3 of those. Up until the last year and a half things had been great in the sex department. Well, I got into my last semester of college and started student teaching and freaked out being around all the kids. I vowed to never have sex again because I could possibly have a monster of my own. Plus the stress really got to me. The last thing that i had in the back of my head was a teacher has a certain image to portray, and a young, party going, sex crazed person was not who i would want to teach my kids so I had some growing up to do. Well that killed our sex life. One day my husband brought to my attention the almost complete holt that had come to our sex life. I started to think about it and I felt really bad. We went from like a couple of times a day to MAYBE once a week if that, and if it was that he practically had to beg. I did some thinking and some soul searching and realized I missed it all to. It was not just the sex part, but the connection and pleasure it brought mentally and physically. Well, to make a long story as short as can be, I think the tables have turned. I feel like I practically have to beg to get him near me. He comes home from work and gets on the computer and is on there all night. He comes to bed and just goes to sleep. Not even a good night or a kiss. All that equal is a date with a toy. When I ask him to spend some time with me away from the computer he says he can't because the people he plays the game with on the Internet count on him to be there so they can play. He CANNOT miss is what he says. I don't know what to do. I am not even sure how to approach the subject. I am kinda hoping I might just be over reacting. If any of you have any advice please share. I am sorry this is long and it is probably more for me to get this off my chest before I explode. Thanks for your help and consideration guys. S

Inlove, It is interesting that you brought this up. I was going to post a question familiar. I have not told my husband that I have found this site. I ho however want to tell him and plan on telling him. I am just not sure how to tel him. I do not want him to think that our sex life is not good or that i an not satisfied. I am very happy but I would like to keep it great for the rest of our lives. So my question is, for those of you who have told the SO, how did you do it? Was your SO upset? Thanks for the help. S

Hello Everyone, I just wanted to say hello. I stumbled upon this site a couple of weeks ago and am so glad I did. I 25 and live in New Mexico. I do not have any children, but dogs and a bird. I am a teacher, god help me! I am married and we just had our 3 year anniv. I am very glad I found all of you. I was raised in the traditional catholic family and have always had so many questins and nobody to turn to. I am sure you can tell by my name. Thank you very much. I am sure my husband would thank you as well. S

I personally love it. I just wish it would happen more. There is something really hot about seeing his cock between my breasts. It is also a tease at the same time. I love to try and suck on it as it comes up to my mouth. The feeling is great too. I would recommend it to anyone.

MM, I would like to say great article. I have been thinking about getting one of these for my husband but was so consued about what to get. Your article was a great help. It has definately given me a starting point for my shopping trip. Thanks for the help! If you have any other suggestions for toys for him let me know. We are trying to add some new stuff into our sex life. S