just4myman

First off - congratulations on the new baby! When I was working and my husband wasn't he wanted sex all the time. He would try every night, but I was sooo exhausted and had to wake up soo early that I never wanted it - I just wanted sleep. Now I have been off work for the summer and he is working long 12 hour days and it's me now that wants sex all the time and yes I fantasize all day long about what I could do to him, but when bedtime comes he's the one that's too tired. I go back to work next monday and then in a few weeks when this baby is born I will be off for another 6 weeks. I have found that doing something to really keep my mind busy helps to keep it off of sex all day long. I will do sodoku puzzles, gardening, cleaning, painting or just anything that makes me think. As for your role playing - I did that once when me and hubby first got married, but only did it a few times and then it got boring for me. I don't think you're a sex addict, but like someone else suggested maybe get your hormones checked.

My boyfriend in highschool would masturbate in front of me when i was on that time of the month. We would have a heavy makeout session and he would really want it so we would take turns jacking him off until he came. It was very erotic and a huge turn on. Me and hubby have never done anything more than rub or touch ourselves while we were having sex, but I would like to see this happen.

So my hubby's friend had a porn DVD that he said my hubby could have because he was quite disturbed by the leather, whips and the abusive nature of the porn - I guess they strangle each other and really whip each other in this DVD. As he told us about it I thought "ok just one of those porns" and didn't think much else about it until my hubby seemed to be getting excited asking all these questions. Well when his buddy brought the DVD out the actual DVD was not in the case and he couldn't find it anywhere. Hubby seemed a little irritated. I think he got really excited about watching a Bondage DVD. Could this be a fantasy of his or just something he would like to watch. I wouldn't mind a little bondage like handcuffs and blindfolds, but I don't know if the leather and whips are for me. What do you guys think. Should I bring it up to him?

Is anal sex ok during pregnancy? I am 8 months along and am really wanting to be done that way and know my hubby would like to do it too. I know lots and lots of lube is essential, but is there anything else I should be worried about. We just started anal play with the fingers.

Hello all of you too timid people! I am a 26 year old married female. Me and my hubby have been married for 6 years and to tell you the truth for the past 4 years I have had no sex drive...well that is until I became pregnant with our 3rd child. I am now 8 months pregnant and I don't think my sex drive was ever even this high when I was in high school. It started with me buying us our first toy and he loves to use it, then he borrowed a porn from a friend which was the worst porn movie in the world and I felt bad because he was really excited about getting a porn so I bought one for us. Last night we watched the whole 2 hours and then after he kept going back to his favorite girl on girl scenes while he pleased me with the g-spot toy. Another great part of it is we had our first successful anal play last night. We have tried before, but it always hurt and until I found this site I had no idea that you needed lube and so last night while watching the porn I think he got the picture too. He lubed up his finger and what do you know - no pain - just pure pleasure and within minutes I had orgasm after orgasm. Poor guy got sooo horny watching me orgasm that he didn't even get it in a couple times and he came. I even had a cock ring on him, but he just couldn't hold back. This is by far the fastest I have ever seen him come and it was such a turn on even though I would have liked to have had wild sex as well, but there will be plenty more times. I know he probably really wants to have anal sex, but didn't want to jump in too fast with that considering it's not a regular thing for us and with me being so pregnant. Is it safe to have anal sex while pregnant? Well I love that i found this website and I love all the information and resources that it offers.